That's pretty much the big reason WHY I'm taking the high road.

There are others, but Melissa is the big one. It's also one of the reasons I would prefer to fix our relationship if it can be fixed. Melissa deserves two loving, caring parents.

Amy's other two kids have been raised in split households, and they are good kids, but they don't have the happiness and joy that Melissa has, having grown up in a nuclear family thus far.

I'd like to keep that for her if I can. Of course, that also means finding a way for everyone involved to be happy - or else there is little point.