I intend to get married about seven weeks after that, which, in addition to being a not insignificant expense itself, will entail an expensive move. Put another way, I don't know how many plane tickets we can afford this summer, partly because I have no clue what our final pricetag will be, and partly because of some chunky and unanticipated medical expenses that hit me just after New Years (incidentally meaning that having met my 2009 deductible long since didn't help. )

I really really want to, but that doesn't mean it will happen. I'll be there in spirit, and will drag m'ladys spirit along, but whether we can do more remains very uncertain, and I'd lean heavily toward "no" if I had to give an answer now. Very sorry. *hugs consolingly*