Journal: Entry for nossy
On what should otherwise be a rather nice day (get to see family and friends after two months abroad), I return to my home wanting only to jet-laggedly fall into bed. Good thing I didn't try- I would have fallen flat-faced onto a bare floor. It turns out that while I was gone, my roommate decided that he wanted to use my bedroom for a sitting room, and that he would move all my shit into the bedroom opposite his. A bedroom I very much did NOT want to be in, seeing as how it's only about two rather unprivate feet away from his room.
Oh. And, cat litter that used to be conveniently on the concrete floor of the garage, with a (n also convenient) cat door to my room, will now have to be on carpet somewhere along the back hall.
I swore I would not be moving again after the last time, so now I am double pissed that I'm thinking about reneging.
Oh. And, cat litter that used to be conveniently on the concrete floor of the garage, with a (n also convenient) cat door to my room, will now have to be on carpet somewhere along the back hall.
I swore I would not be moving again after the last time, so now I am double pissed that I'm thinking about reneging.
Re: SO. PISSED. OFF.
On what should otherwise be a rather nice day (get to see family and friends after two months abroad), I return to my home wanting only to jet-laggedly fall into bed. Good thing I didn't try- I would have fallen flat-faced onto a bare floor. It turns out that while I was gone, my roommate decided that he wanted to use my bedroom for a sitting room, and that he would move all my shit into the bedroom opposite his. A bedroom I very much did NOT want to be in, seeing as how it's only about two rather unprivate feet away from his room.
Oh. And, cat litter that used to be conveniently on the concrete floor of the garage, with a (n also convenient) cat door to my room, will now have to be on carpet somewhere along the back hall.
I swore I would not be moving again after the last time, so now I am double pissed that I'm thinking about reneging.
Oh. And, cat litter that used to be conveniently on the concrete floor of the garage, with a (n also convenient) cat door to my room, will now have to be on carpet somewhere along the back hall.
I swore I would not be moving again after the last time, so now I am double pissed that I'm thinking about reneging.
And why are you letting him do this? You pay for half of the rent do you not? Are you not on the lease? You need to stick up for yourself.
I just got here.
He had convinced himself I'd be cool with it, but it was rationalization because he wanted to have the room with the fireplace. We are not on equal pay, however, which means I'm more than tempted to just let him have it while I move.
you shoudl just sublease out of your rent
and not tell him about it 
Head punching.
It will make you feel better.
See, I always say throat punching...
But some kind of bodily injury is required.
I wish I could help.
I wish I could help.
That Mother Fucker.
It's not cool, and tell the asshole to fucking change your shit back where belongs, or you will cut off his nuts w/ a butter knife.
Wow, that's low
Kick some ass! *hugs*
If possible, I'm even angrier than I was last night.
So much for "sleeping on it."
I've realized that I either have to have the cat litter in my bedroom or shut them out of my room at night if I want to have personal privacy other than just his shut door while mine is open.
His comment about not having looked through all my stuff as it was moved is that his daughter moved most of it- you know, so I wouldn't worry about undies and things. He may pretend to feel differently, but we both know that his daughter is a liar and thief, amongst other things. SO glad to know she had access to all my personal records and information.
This is not helping. Need calm. Breathe.
...
I don't want to fucking breathe, I want to beat someone.
I've realized that I either have to have the cat litter in my bedroom or shut them out of my room at night if I want to have personal privacy other than just his shut door while mine is open.
His comment about not having looked through all my stuff as it was moved is that his daughter moved most of it- you know, so I wouldn't worry about undies and things. He may pretend to feel differently, but we both know that his daughter is a liar and thief, amongst other things. SO glad to know she had access to all my personal records and information.
This is not helping. Need calm. Breathe.
...
I don't want to fucking breathe, I want to beat someone.
Re: SO. PISSED. OFF.
Is it not possible to have him move everything back to where it was before you left? I'm not sure I fully understand your statement about "not equal pay".
What a tool.
I'm so sorry. After such a long trip and all the exhaustion and mixed emotions of coming home too.
I would offer a hug, but if you're anything like me, that would just piss you off more right now. So instead, I will offer to kick your roommate in the nuts. Hard. With pointy shoes.
(As much as it SUCKS it does sound like moving out is the best option for you given the circumstances. He's not cool as a roommate and the situation with his daughter sounds worrisome...you probably don't want to stay with him as long as she knows where he is anyway.)
I would offer a hug, but if you're anything like me, that would just piss you off more right now. So instead, I will offer to kick your roommate in the nuts. Hard. With pointy shoes.
(As much as it SUCKS it does sound like moving out is the best option for you given the circumstances. He's not cool as a roommate and the situation with his daughter sounds worrisome...you probably don't want to stay with him as long as she knows where he is anyway.)
This accounts for your facebook comment...
Ugh.
As someone a bit more familiar with the situation: it's complicated, which probably makes things even more frustrating. I don't know that there's much she CAN do short of moving. And moving is always complicated.
I'd be feeling a powerful urge to put a fist through a wall...
All that after the long day of travel and crazy emotions from it, too. I seriously don't know if I'd be able to keep up a sane/civil front.
Don't really know what to say except that I hope today is better... (ack, should go charge phone in case you call).
As someone a bit more familiar with the situation: it's complicated, which probably makes things even more frustrating. I don't know that there's much she CAN do short of moving. And moving is always complicated.
I'd be feeling a powerful urge to put a fist through a wall...
All that after the long day of travel and crazy emotions from it, too. I seriously don't know if I'd be able to keep up a sane/civil front.
Don't really know what to say except that I hope today is better... (ack, should go charge phone in case you call).
It's ending with a bang.
Not a gun-like one.
But also not
as in you're banging each other.
I assume
I assume