2 a time to be born,
and a time to die;
a time to plant,
and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

3 a time to kill,
and a time to heal;
a time to break down,
and a time to build up;

4 a time to weep,
and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn,
and a time to dance;

5 a time to cast away stones,
and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace,
and a time to refrain from embracing;

6 a time to seek,
and a time to lose;
a time to keep,
and a time to cast away;

7 a time to tear,
and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence,
and a time to speak;

8 a time to love,
and a time to hate;
a time for war,
and a time for peace.

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But we do not always get to choose our time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1UoqbIQpnU

Yeah Floffe it SUCKS, it really does, it is not fair. Revel in this pain, revel in the suffering, but do not become bitter. For becoming bitter about the pain, prevents you from seeing what could be, it is darkness, not as in evil, but it is all consuming and limiting your vision and you can't see what could be, for if you become bitter you hyperfocus about your pain and it becomes your attention.

Offers you a hug, so do you want to brainstorm and think of all the possibilities of fun things you can do with you and your kids tomorrow?

Floffe I can't take away your pain, I can't give you the free time you want and give you the power to grant yourself to have some personal time to yourself (I am an introvert, TRUST ME I GET HOW IMPORTANT THIS IS!) I can't change your ex's mind and make her understand she is being kind of a jerk.

But I can help you with other things, I can help you with ideas. I can also just listen, for I think I can understand where you are comming from for I was born as a child from a divorce, and I had some assholes in my family who pulled BS like this on me, and assholes who were not part of my family. So I think I understand for I think I had similar experiences.

But maybe I do not understand, so I am willing to give you my full attention and just listen, please just talk and tell me why you feel what you feel and why you think what you think. Really I should just shut up, sit down on the ground, and put my hands and feet in Indian style aka cross legged.