Egwene...the girl who helped unkown channelers spy on her life long friend, who assumed the Aiel girl she just met was being mistreated by her lifelong friend on no evidence, who forced Perrin to grant her leadership..until things got hard...and then ditched him as soon as they joined other people, who forced women to swear fealty to her then swore punishment on another for doing the same, who tried to manipulate a friend into a relationship for the benifit of a relitive stranger whether the friend wanted it or not, who again and again and again has shown a willingness to cast freinds and family aside as soon as literally ANYONE else just shows up..and on and on and ect...Sigh...why would anyone assume the worst in her or have a habit of judging her harshly? I can't even imagine.