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Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl Send a noteboard - 12/07/2011 07:30:07 PM
To be fair Perrin also assumed his cultural standards would be the norm and never made any effort to understand why it wasn't working until Elyas spelled it out for him, even though his in-laws gave him a good suggestion of it. And Faile has made efforts to adapt as well.


Yes, but Perrin didn't passive-agressively punish Faile for not living up to his cultural standards. Instead, he tried to fix whatever he was doing wrong. Yes, he was inept at it and ended up making the situation worse, but he was actually trying to make Faile feel better, not punishing her for not fitting into his idea of what a wife should be like. That's the difference.
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What;s your favorite RJ comment on the sexes? newyorkersedai - 06/07/2011 02:04:56 AM 2126 Views
Women cannot admit they were wrong and will partner up with their worst enemy against a man over it. djwilson300 - 07/07/2011 12:20:16 AM 1192 Views
I remember a thread started by Phil Reborn long ago... Fanatic-Templar - 07/07/2011 05:21:12 AM 1152 Views
Oh, heaven, I've been there! newyorkersedai - 08/07/2011 12:04:35 AM 1231 Views
what you've never heard of "bros before hos"? darius_sedai - 08/07/2011 08:03:47 PM 1160 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:38:59 PM 1019 Views
Yeah, but before you've even broken up? *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:51 PM 574 Views
Re: Yeah, but before you've even broken up? darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:13:57 PM 1111 Views
That's not exactly what the incident was about. Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:29:14 PM 1137 Views
Yes, and the way Egwene expressed her thoughts on the matter is quite disturning too Zeratul - 11/07/2011 12:56:59 AM 1148 Views
That wasn't what I was refering to ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:26:59 PM 1061 Views
certainly not by today's standards, but to play devil's advocate here... darius_sedai - 12/07/2011 09:04:07 PM 1119 Views
I don't think any of his comments on the sexes are accurate for real people RugbyPlayingAshaman - 07/07/2011 02:53:29 PM 1217 Views
I largely disagree newyorkersedai - 07/07/2011 11:59:52 PM 1199 Views
I agree with you about stereotypes LadyLorraine - 08/07/2011 01:13:22 AM 1046 Views
Hahah, he did? Details, please. beetnemesis - 08/07/2011 05:07:01 AM 1026 Views
No Deadsy - 08/07/2011 06:10:05 AM 1193 Views
It depends on who the 6 women and his dual girlfriends were. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 08/07/2011 03:15:14 PM 1140 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 07:46:30 PM 1144 Views
*NM* fionwe1987 - 08/07/2011 09:18:44 PM 550 Views
Hi fionwe1987! *NM* ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:36:48 PM 542 Views
Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... fionwe1987 - 09/07/2011 06:31:20 AM 1218 Views
Yes! I agree! newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:21 PM 1251 Views
I shall never recover *NM* ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:23:11 PM 494 Views
I think your heart will go on =p *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 07:27:28 PM 519 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:42:48 PM 1174 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:35:37 PM 1067 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:30:07 PM 1230 Views
Much of Faile's "punishing" was just Perrin's super-nose. Fanatic-Templar - 13/07/2011 03:36:03 AM 1074 Views
that's not why stereotypes exist LadyLorraine - 09/07/2011 04:18:45 AM 1155 Views
Re: that's not why stereotypes exist newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:27:24 PM 1337 Views
*throws caution to the wind* darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:19:42 PM 1068 Views
whether positive or negative, stereotypes all come from the same place nigelgoboom - 12/07/2011 04:29:23 AM 1051 Views
That's why I said that's the easy way out. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 14/07/2011 02:39:38 PM 1003 Views
Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm *NM* Cannoli - 13/07/2011 01:09:00 AM 638 Views
Re: Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm darius_sedai - 16/07/2011 01:02:37 PM 1303 Views
blood and ashes! *NM* nigelgoboom - 13/07/2011 01:24:18 AM 520 Views
You have to make sure your husbands do what you want, while making them think it was their idea. CatherineSedai - 21/07/2011 04:28:39 AM 1142 Views
And I can buy that, which is why I'm surprised at how many claimed they were inaccurate. Seriously, newyorkersedai - 26/07/2011 01:44:28 AM 1139 Views
I always thought it was relatively accurate. Onarishma - 21/07/2011 11:36:41 PM 1102 Views
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