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You stupid. <playing along Part 3> Danae alThor - 30/01/2003 01:10:25 PM

Do you think that marriage is good enough if it is just a piece of paper? I mean, if you NEED the piece of paper, maybe the marriage will fall apart.
It's not the paper, it's what it symbolises. Like the rings. The rings could be made of wood, and they'd still be important. People can't hold on to abstrats - they eed the tangibles, to believe in anything. that's why we have the flowers, the choclate.
How so? You need proof that you were married, things aren't looking up...
No. You need a tangible symbol of the marraige. Many people elope and run off to Vegas - it's the elopement and the thought we are married that is important. With the paper, they have proof that they are kith and kin, and can now do legal stuff (inheritance, insurance etxc) together.

You're focusing waaay too much on paper.
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