Active Users:169 Time:20/04/2024 04:19:06 PM
I beg to differ Jeordam - 30/04/2004 05:59:53 PM

Here are some things for you to think on...from personal experience.

I'm mexican...but I'm not Catholic. That in and of itself has caused more problems with the culture than I can tell you...but there it is. Why? Because my Grandmother believed and wanted a more personal relationship with God. She wanted to know Jesus personally...not have to go through a priest. She didn't feel that she needed to confess her sins to a man who wasn't involved at all. She did not revere Mary the Mother of Jesus as anything more than another woman just like she is. So my grandmother started to go to a church that was very "other side of the tracks"....it was an Assemblies of God church.

It was a bold move. Since then...that's kind of been the home church....but my family (when they go to church) attend a variety....baised on their own faith and beliefs.

Ok....but yes, I would tend to agree with you that without an active search/questioning of one's faith....taking the parent's faith is just easier to do, since it's not really your own. You can follow it or not follow it as you see fit with no guilt or whatnot if you cop out. You make your token apearances in the church on Christmas Eve or Easter Sunday, keep the parentals happy...and there ya go. But yes...the parent's faith tends to be the defalt setting.

I do believe though that there is a major exception to the rule and that would be with athistic or agnostic belief. Those tend to be personal choices...and with those choices there is an underlining emotional responce that goes with it. This is not necessarily passed onto the children, as humans have an inherant drive to believe in God/Higher Powers/Spirits (see every culture in earth's history).

But well...if you waited until you were "older" and "wiser" or "mature" and "sensible" then you will never get there because it was never a priority before, why should it be then? Who says that a child cannot decide if they want to persue a relationship with God? As a child, their faith will be as simple as it needs to be for them. As they grow up, their faith will also grow deeper and greater understanding will come with it. One's faith is not a static thing, but it becomes more vast as the believer explores it, lives it, studies it, and experiences it. There is absolutely no reason why that can't start at an age when they begin to realize right from wrong, good from bad, and so forth.

Jeordam


Near-Brother to Roonas
Admin of the Art Gallery
Admin of all that is WoT

Boldly Go




View/create new replies Sign up for a premium account to add posts to a list of favourites!
Why are we not given a choice about religion? - 30/04/2004 04:10:38 PM 233 Views
you have many choices. - 30/04/2004 04:14:10 PM 20 Views
Everyone can change, its just a matter of being open to change - 30/04/2004 04:14:39 PM 22 Views
I'm not saying necessarily that I want to change - 30/04/2004 04:17:32 PM 13 Views
All religions basically say the same thing, anyway - 30/04/2004 04:26:21 PM 17 Views
Wow, I think thats really off... - 30/04/2004 04:22:36 PM 30 Views
Because Parents do what they think is best for us... - 30/04/2004 04:24:37 PM 29 Views
I chose - 30/04/2004 04:41:40 PM 25 Views
I agree. - 30/04/2004 10:09:20 PM 7 Views
Well, yeah, there lies the paradox. - 30/04/2004 05:08:45 PM 19 Views
I've always agreed with you! - 30/04/2004 05:11:57 PM 10 Views
I AM the exception - 30/04/2004 05:23:06 PM 10 Views
Re: Why are we not given a choice about religion? - 30/04/2004 05:23:20 PM 10 Views
Don't flame me - 30/04/2004 05:43:30 PM 18 Views
You used your choice when you chose your parents - 30/04/2004 05:44:13 PM 23 Views
chose my parents? *NM* - 30/04/2004 05:56:50 PM 6 Views
Ignore the irrational spiritualist. - 01/05/2004 04:52:30 AM 13 Views
Re: Ignore the irrational spiritualist. - 01/05/2004 06:58:48 PM 7 Views
Re: chose my parents? - 01/05/2004 06:57:05 PM 8 Views
You're a spiritualist? *NM* - 30/04/2004 08:08:35 PM 3 Views
i totaly agree with you - 30/04/2004 05:45:08 PM 11 Views
I beg to differ - 30/04/2004 05:59:53 PM 35 Views
very good points.. - 30/04/2004 07:55:14 PM 11 Views
Well generally you do have a mind of your own - 30/04/2004 06:02:19 PM 11 Views
Mainly for one reason - 30/04/2004 06:18:24 PM 7 Views
completely different here - 30/04/2004 06:44:40 PM 8 Views
Best comment on it? - 30/04/2004 07:42:46 PM 13 Views
Interesting, but . . . well, let's discuss. - 30/04/2004 10:06:59 PM 12 Views
That is the way religion works. - 30/04/2004 10:11:43 PM 18 Views
That's the way ALL ideologies work, really. - 01/05/2004 05:11:17 AM 10 Views
There is only one real choice - 30/04/2004 10:54:55 PM 7 Views
We are given a choice - 01/05/2004 12:15:59 AM 10 Views
And yet, nevertheless, 80% of people share their parents' religion. *NM* - 01/05/2004 04:53:00 AM 4 Views
Because it is easier - 01/05/2004 09:44:07 AM 7 Views
Nah... because that's the way human psychology works. - 01/05/2004 02:23:00 PM 6 Views
You are. - 01/05/2004 08:07:24 AM 11 Views
My thoughts? - 01/05/2004 09:34:51 AM 8 Views