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I couldn't "make" my 9-year-old read anything he didn't want to Two Wongs Send a noteboard - 27/05/2011 03:15:46 PM
And I wouldn't want to force a book on him - I can remember only too well being back at school and being force-fed books to read, and I'd hate them on pure principle!

He is nothing like the voracious bookworm I was at his age, but he doesn't have time nor the inclination. That hasn't translated into an immature ability but he would likely tell you some choice words if you tried to get him to read most of those books on that list.
Do I care? Not really. He will likely read some of the listed stories in his own time and if not then the world won't end. I'm happy seeing my sports-mad ball of energy sitting for hours fascinated with a pile of Nat Geo magazines, or explaining Zac Power's latest gadgets to me.

Books should be treasures we discover along the way, not geegaws forced upon us by someone else. I've not read past the fourth chapter in the first book of LoTR for this very reason. I have the feeling I'm missing out on a really ripping yarn but I can't make myself do it; I imagine it's for a similar reason as for kids who were forced to eat porridge, growing up and never eating it again.
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Two Wongs
Former Officer, ASI
Now mature and sensible... *MySmiley*
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50 books for 11-yearolds - 24/05/2011 11:11:20 AM 2202 Views
Reasonably good list. - 24/05/2011 01:32:40 PM 1022 Views
Re: Reasonably good list. - 24/05/2011 02:44:52 PM 999 Views
Re: Reasonably good list. - 24/05/2011 05:39:17 PM 1074 Views
Pretty good, but I'd like to see a bit more hard sci-fi in there. - 24/05/2011 01:48:57 PM 972 Views
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I think most "reading" children will have read those books before age 11. - 24/05/2011 02:22:49 PM 931 Views
That is a fair point - 24/05/2011 02:47:45 PM 996 Views
Animorphs! *NM* - 24/05/2011 04:06:12 PM 438 Views
Seconded! *NM* - 24/05/2011 06:34:56 PM 516 Views
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I agree with Tom, I think. - 25/05/2011 06:45:16 AM 1045 Views
I couldn't "make" my 9-year-old read anything he didn't want to - 27/05/2011 03:15:46 PM 1050 Views

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