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Re: As a neutral third party, I hate that girl. Danae al'Thor Send a noteboard - 10/05/2010 04:47:06 PM

The harder question is, if you don't have any of these things, or if they are not enough, then what? Why don't you have them? What could you do to get them? Why are they not enough? What more do you want?

I don't mean you specifically, Roh. That's more of the general you. And they may be rhetorical questions, if they apply at all. I'm sure everyone is different, both in what they have, what they want, and how it all combines to form their level of happiness.

I hope you are well though!


I think I can identify with some, though not all, of those questions. My therapist was telling me today that maybe I need to remember that I should answer those questions or ask them in order to evaluate myself on a happiness scale, or find myself wanting on a scale demarcated by those criteria.

All this being-balanced business is very hard.

Also, I'm currently writing a blog post. I am afraid Camilla will kill me after. Help! Protect me!
http://coolingpearls.wordpress.com/
http://uncategoricallyroh.wordpress.com/
http://whaq.blogspot.com/
~Roh
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Danae-Log: So. What makes life worth living? Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:04:26 PM 1754 Views
The good bits Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:17:37 PM 1367 Views
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Re: There are cannibals out there who believe(d) that if you ate bits of your enemy/someone, Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:27:27 PM 1197 Views
Re: It's because the muscles haven't gotten all developed and stringy yet. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:28:44 PM 1304 Views
Re: It's because the muscles haven't gotten all developed and stringy yet. Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:30:42 PM 1123 Views
Re: I think lots of us had pre-construed that anyway. Sorry. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:35:16 PM 1244 Views
Re: I think lots of us had pre-construed that anyway. Sorry. Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:45:35 PM 1188 Views
Re: It said: Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:01:59 PM 1194 Views
Re: It said: Camilla - 09/05/2010 12:04:37 AM 1081 Views
Excellent reply *NM* ironclad - 10/05/2010 12:34:10 PM 689 Views
Try meditation. Just breathing exercises and relaxation. Tom - 08/05/2010 05:24:34 PM 1329 Views
Re: Um, I meditate. And I manage quote fine without CDs to do it. *NM* Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:27:28 PM 717 Views
I would posit you're not doing a good job if you're considering suicide. *NM* Tom - 09/05/2010 04:39:05 AM 789 Views
Re: I'm not considering suicide! It says so in my post! I'm so annoyed with people who assume I am! Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:23:37 AM 1294 Views
Why do you need to affirmatively say you're not considering suicide, then? Tom - 09/05/2010 05:41:50 AM 1317 Views
Re: Because I wanted to make clear my problem, and ask for a little help that wasn't about fixing me Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:50:27 AM 1261 Views
Suicide is scary A Deathwatch Guard - 08/05/2010 05:28:00 PM 1353 Views
Re: It's a self-propagating cycle, feeling bad. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:34:13 PM 1230 Views
Dunno p hart - 08/05/2010 06:01:06 PM 1382 Views
Re: That's a never-ending line. *NM* Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:09:40 PM 616 Views
I can only think of one reason Bramhodoulos - 08/05/2010 06:43:11 PM 1396 Views
Re: I feel a little ignorant. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:45:47 PM 1163 Views
Yeah, that one (typos ) Bramhodoulos - 08/05/2010 06:46:37 PM 1295 Views
Frankly, I agree, but it's not something of which people can be really be "convinced. " Joel - 12/05/2010 12:43:29 AM 1358 Views
No Bramhodoulos - 12/05/2010 12:53:42 AM 1251 Views
Oh, I totally agree. Joel - 12/05/2010 01:05:29 AM 1162 Views
Ah, so you used "convinced" as a verb and not as a participle *NM* Bramhodoulos - 12/05/2010 09:30:59 AM 687 Views
Right. Joel - 12/05/2010 12:17:59 PM 1531 Views
personally LadyLorraine - 08/05/2010 06:45:45 PM 1264 Views
Re: How many horses do you have? Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:48:27 PM 1140 Views
I have two LadyLorraine - 08/05/2010 06:55:39 PM 1295 Views
That's an insanely hard question Danae SilverWarder - 08/05/2010 08:53:06 PM 1380 Views
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Ah, I see SilverWarder - 08/05/2010 09:19:22 PM 1279 Views
Re: I think the difference between you and me in some ways is... Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 09:27:17 PM 1145 Views
Well - I'm glad it's of some help :-) SilverWarder - 09/05/2010 09:39:20 AM 1197 Views
So what makes you think death is any better? *NM* Dark Knight - 08/05/2010 09:11:46 PM 670 Views
Re: Um, since I am not contemplating suicide, it's not an issue. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 09:16:39 PM 1336 Views
Answers lie within Dark Knight - 08/05/2010 09:43:01 PM 1340 Views
Re: I rather like that idea myself. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 10:02:34 PM 1246 Views
No easy answer. Beqi - 08/05/2010 09:26:52 PM 1082 Views
Re: Dude, my new pills have cured my insomnia, it is awesome. I'd forgotten about that. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 09:28:54 PM 1225 Views
I'm probably not the right person to answer this question... damookster - 08/05/2010 09:34:35 PM 1472 Views
Re: Don't take this the wrong way... Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 09:36:21 PM 1326 Views
I'm praying for you right now... vandevere - 10/05/2010 10:08:32 PM 1226 Views
I just wanna know what's next, 'cause it tends to be baffling. (beat.) - 08/05/2010 10:18:16 PM 1324 Views
Re: Do you believe in reincarnation? You might be able to! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:24:17 AM 576 Views
That would be way awesome. (beat.) - 09/05/2010 11:53:40 PM 1297 Views
Re: I haven't read it. Or heard of it. Let us know what it's like! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 08:36:41 AM 713 Views
It's small, sweet and related to all this stuff here. *NM* (beat.) - 10/05/2010 12:09:47 PM 633 Views
Experience Larry - 08/05/2010 10:44:08 PM 1376 Views
Re: You need to grow a beard, Larry. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:25:20 AM 1304 Views
Who's to say I haven't? Larry - 09/05/2010 11:56:56 AM 1096 Views
I'm fairly certain there isn't some magic "thing." nossy - 08/05/2010 10:45:34 PM 1168 Views
Re: That's interesting. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:26:34 AM 1209 Views
Re: That's interesting. nossy - 09/05/2010 09:12:38 PM 1160 Views
Because I can't be world dictator if I am dead random thoughts - 08/05/2010 10:47:37 PM 1214 Views
Re: I think it's a RAFOnaut thing, to want to be world dictator. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:28:01 AM 1275 Views
Helping other people. *NM* BlackAdder - 08/05/2010 10:51:28 PM 574 Views
Re: If you don't mind my asking, Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:31:22 AM 1223 Views
Re: If you don't mind my asking, BlackAdder - 09/05/2010 10:11:43 PM 1243 Views
Can't help you there. jh - 08/05/2010 11:22:01 PM 1217 Views
Re: When the theses are done they can be fun! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:31:48 AM 644 Views
Hmmm. No. jh - 09/05/2010 04:44:44 PM 1293 Views
Some days it just boils down to duty. Tashmere - 09/05/2010 12:52:06 AM 1350 Views
Re: The no expectations thing is HARD. To do on a moment-to-moment basis. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:43:00 AM 1313 Views
I was in a slightly bleak mood when I wrote the first reply. I need to amend it. Tashmere - 13/05/2010 12:59:09 AM 1393 Views
That there will be a sixth season of Supernatural? Sophy - 09/05/2010 06:30:34 AM 1317 Views
Re: I actually haven't watched anything since xxx released ddd and told aaa he'd say ssss. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 10:28:03 AM 1088 Views
love, connection with others, the awe of being alive in the world temeraire - 09/05/2010 07:17:34 AM 1088 Views
Re: You don't have to find stuff for me! Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 10:31:00 AM 1183 Views
Love is all that keeps me sane. rebelaessedai - 09/05/2010 07:31:44 AM 1217 Views
Re: *NM* Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 10:31:18 AM 542 Views
Whatever you decide it does smaug - 09/05/2010 10:17:09 AM 1212 Views
Re: I have not seen that, that is KICKASS. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 10:38:34 AM 1242 Views
*flourishes hat* smaug - 09/05/2010 08:44:33 PM 1370 Views
That video is excellent, thanks! *NM* SilverWarder - 09/05/2010 05:52:11 PM 551 Views
Bad dancing is too awesome to not be shared *NM* smaug - 09/05/2010 08:46:27 PM 615 Views
Yep, it's one of those clips that makes you think mankind isn't that bad after all *NM* ironclad - 11/05/2010 09:20:38 AM 668 Views
The small things. Rebekah - 09/05/2010 10:45:46 AM 1315 Views
Re: Dammit, Rebekah, now I have a song playing in my head. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 11:06:46 AM 1066 Views
waitwaitwait Camilla - 09/05/2010 12:18:13 PM 1091 Views
Re: Read the review when I post it! Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 03:19:14 PM 1274 Views
Carnal bliss, hydrocodone and brownies Vodalus - 09/05/2010 10:47:24 AM 1423 Views
Re: hydrocodone = pain meds? Paracetamol? Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 11:10:22 AM 1166 Views
It's an opiod often combined with paracetamol. Vodalus - 09/05/2010 05:46:50 PM 1383 Views
To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you... TaskmasterJack - 10/05/2010 01:40:14 AM 1210 Views
Re: Make sure your dentures are in. *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 08:35:49 AM 540 Views
Hmm. I'm trying to seriously consider your question. Nate - 10/05/2010 02:21:32 AM 1275 Views
Re: As a neutral third party, I hate that girl. Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 04:47:06 PM 1310 Views
Spring-time forests with flowers *NM* Floffe - 10/05/2010 05:59:46 AM 565 Views
Re: *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 08:41:19 AM 541 Views
I stick around for updates to the Danae-Log! Avendesora - 10/05/2010 12:14:43 PM 1332 Views
Re: Dude. Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 04:44:24 PM 1123 Views
Heh. click the link. Avendesora - 10/05/2010 05:45:53 PM 1292 Views
Re: <whistles> Bayyyyybeee. Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 06:04:51 PM 1175 Views
Perv. *NM* Avendesora - 11/05/2010 02:00:43 AM 653 Views
Re: Danae-Log: So. What makes life worth living? lyringlas - 11/05/2010 09:28:09 PM 1185 Views
Love and the people who share it still seem the best answer. Joel - 12/05/2010 01:01:51 AM 1185 Views
I don't think it's a question to ask, but a decision to make Helene - 14/05/2010 07:38:46 PM 1342 Views
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