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Re: As a neutral third party, I hate that girl. Danae al'Thor Send a noteboard - 10/05/2010 04:47:06 PM

The harder question is, if you don't have any of these things, or if they are not enough, then what? Why don't you have them? What could you do to get them? Why are they not enough? What more do you want?

I don't mean you specifically, Roh. That's more of the general you. And they may be rhetorical questions, if they apply at all. I'm sure everyone is different, both in what they have, what they want, and how it all combines to form their level of happiness.

I hope you are well though!


I think I can identify with some, though not all, of those questions. My therapist was telling me today that maybe I need to remember that I should answer those questions or ask them in order to evaluate myself on a happiness scale, or find myself wanting on a scale demarcated by those criteria.

All this being-balanced business is very hard.

Also, I'm currently writing a blog post. I am afraid Camilla will kill me after. Help! Protect me!
http://coolingpearls.wordpress.com/
http://uncategoricallyroh.wordpress.com/
http://whaq.blogspot.com/
~Roh
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Danae-Log: So. What makes life worth living? Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:04:26 PM 1819 Views
The good bits Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:17:37 PM 1446 Views
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Re: There are cannibals out there who believe(d) that if you ate bits of your enemy/someone, Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:27:27 PM 1273 Views
Re: It's because the muscles haven't gotten all developed and stringy yet. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:28:44 PM 1377 Views
Re: It's because the muscles haven't gotten all developed and stringy yet. Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:30:42 PM 1192 Views
Re: I think lots of us had pre-construed that anyway. Sorry. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:35:16 PM 1299 Views
Re: I think lots of us had pre-construed that anyway. Sorry. Camilla - 08/05/2010 05:45:35 PM 1245 Views
Re: It said: Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:01:59 PM 1262 Views
Re: It said: Camilla - 09/05/2010 12:04:37 AM 1147 Views
Excellent reply *NM* ironclad - 10/05/2010 12:34:10 PM 725 Views
Try meditation. Just breathing exercises and relaxation. Tom - 08/05/2010 05:24:34 PM 1393 Views
Re: Um, I meditate. And I manage quote fine without CDs to do it. *NM* Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:27:28 PM 754 Views
I would posit you're not doing a good job if you're considering suicide. *NM* Tom - 09/05/2010 04:39:05 AM 832 Views
Re: I'm not considering suicide! It says so in my post! I'm so annoyed with people who assume I am! Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:23:37 AM 1354 Views
Why do you need to affirmatively say you're not considering suicide, then? Tom - 09/05/2010 05:41:50 AM 1380 Views
Re: Because I wanted to make clear my problem, and ask for a little help that wasn't about fixing me Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:50:27 AM 1327 Views
Suicide is scary A Deathwatch Guard - 08/05/2010 05:28:00 PM 1448 Views
Re: It's a self-propagating cycle, feeling bad. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 05:34:13 PM 1316 Views
Dunno p hart - 08/05/2010 06:01:06 PM 1452 Views
Re: That's a never-ending line. *NM* Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:09:40 PM 653 Views
I can only think of one reason Bramhodoulos - 08/05/2010 06:43:11 PM 1462 Views
Re: I feel a little ignorant. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:45:47 PM 1222 Views
Yeah, that one (typos ) Bramhodoulos - 08/05/2010 06:46:37 PM 1356 Views
Frankly, I agree, but it's not something of which people can be really be "convinced. " Joel - 12/05/2010 12:43:29 AM 1425 Views
No Bramhodoulos - 12/05/2010 12:53:42 AM 1318 Views
Oh, I totally agree. Joel - 12/05/2010 01:05:29 AM 1245 Views
Ah, so you used "convinced" as a verb and not as a participle *NM* Bramhodoulos - 12/05/2010 09:30:59 AM 728 Views
Right. Joel - 12/05/2010 12:17:59 PM 1598 Views
personally LadyLorraine - 08/05/2010 06:45:45 PM 1328 Views
Re: How many horses do you have? Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 06:48:27 PM 1198 Views
I have two LadyLorraine - 08/05/2010 06:55:39 PM 1357 Views
That's an insanely hard question Danae SilverWarder - 08/05/2010 08:53:06 PM 1487 Views
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Ah, I see SilverWarder - 08/05/2010 09:19:22 PM 1343 Views
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Well - I'm glad it's of some help :-) SilverWarder - 09/05/2010 09:39:20 AM 1268 Views
So what makes you think death is any better? *NM* Dark Knight - 08/05/2010 09:11:46 PM 701 Views
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Answers lie within Dark Knight - 08/05/2010 09:43:01 PM 1404 Views
Re: I rather like that idea myself. Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 10:02:34 PM 1311 Views
No easy answer. Beqi - 08/05/2010 09:26:52 PM 1139 Views
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I'm probably not the right person to answer this question... damookster - 08/05/2010 09:34:35 PM 1534 Views
Re: Don't take this the wrong way... Danae al'Thor - 08/05/2010 09:36:21 PM 1388 Views
I'm praying for you right now... vandevere - 10/05/2010 10:08:32 PM 1290 Views
I just wanna know what's next, 'cause it tends to be baffling. (beat.) - 08/05/2010 10:18:16 PM 1396 Views
Re: Do you believe in reincarnation? You might be able to! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:24:17 AM 617 Views
That would be way awesome. (beat.) - 09/05/2010 11:53:40 PM 1359 Views
Re: I haven't read it. Or heard of it. Let us know what it's like! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 08:36:41 AM 751 Views
It's small, sweet and related to all this stuff here. *NM* (beat.) - 10/05/2010 12:09:47 PM 675 Views
Experience Larry - 08/05/2010 10:44:08 PM 1447 Views
Re: You need to grow a beard, Larry. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:25:20 AM 1368 Views
Who's to say I haven't? Larry - 09/05/2010 11:56:56 AM 1160 Views
I'm fairly certain there isn't some magic "thing." nossy - 08/05/2010 10:45:34 PM 1226 Views
Re: That's interesting. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:26:34 AM 1281 Views
Re: That's interesting. nossy - 09/05/2010 09:12:38 PM 1231 Views
Because I can't be world dictator if I am dead random thoughts - 08/05/2010 10:47:37 PM 1284 Views
Re: I think it's a RAFOnaut thing, to want to be world dictator. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:28:01 AM 1340 Views
Helping other people. *NM* BlackAdder - 08/05/2010 10:51:28 PM 631 Views
Re: If you don't mind my asking, Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:31:22 AM 1292 Views
Re: If you don't mind my asking, BlackAdder - 09/05/2010 10:11:43 PM 1315 Views
Can't help you there. jh - 08/05/2010 11:22:01 PM 1288 Views
Re: When the theses are done they can be fun! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:31:48 AM 681 Views
Hmmm. No. jh - 09/05/2010 04:44:44 PM 1359 Views
Some days it just boils down to duty. Tashmere - 09/05/2010 12:52:06 AM 1422 Views
Re: The no expectations thing is HARD. To do on a moment-to-moment basis. Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 05:43:00 AM 1377 Views
I was in a slightly bleak mood when I wrote the first reply. I need to amend it. Tashmere - 13/05/2010 12:59:09 AM 1467 Views
That there will be a sixth season of Supernatural? Sophy - 09/05/2010 06:30:34 AM 1388 Views
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love, connection with others, the awe of being alive in the world temeraire - 09/05/2010 07:17:34 AM 1152 Views
Re: You don't have to find stuff for me! Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 10:31:00 AM 1260 Views
Love is all that keeps me sane. rebelaessedai - 09/05/2010 07:31:44 AM 1289 Views
Re: *NM* Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 10:31:18 AM 579 Views
Whatever you decide it does smaug - 09/05/2010 10:17:09 AM 1271 Views
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*flourishes hat* smaug - 09/05/2010 08:44:33 PM 1440 Views
That video is excellent, thanks! *NM* SilverWarder - 09/05/2010 05:52:11 PM 599 Views
Bad dancing is too awesome to not be shared *NM* smaug - 09/05/2010 08:46:27 PM 651 Views
Yep, it's one of those clips that makes you think mankind isn't that bad after all *NM* ironclad - 11/05/2010 09:20:38 AM 707 Views
The small things. Rebekah - 09/05/2010 10:45:46 AM 1376 Views
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waitwaitwait Camilla - 09/05/2010 12:18:13 PM 1175 Views
Re: Read the review when I post it! Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 03:19:14 PM 1346 Views
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Re: hydrocodone = pain meds? Paracetamol? Danae al'Thor - 09/05/2010 11:10:22 AM 1270 Views
It's an opiod often combined with paracetamol. Vodalus - 09/05/2010 05:46:50 PM 1489 Views
To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you... TaskmasterJack - 10/05/2010 01:40:14 AM 1277 Views
Re: Make sure your dentures are in. *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 08:35:49 AM 579 Views
Hmm. I'm trying to seriously consider your question. Nate - 10/05/2010 02:21:32 AM 1353 Views
Re: As a neutral third party, I hate that girl. Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 04:47:06 PM 1373 Views
Spring-time forests with flowers *NM* Floffe - 10/05/2010 05:59:46 AM 605 Views
Re: *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 08:41:19 AM 591 Views
I stick around for updates to the Danae-Log! Avendesora - 10/05/2010 12:14:43 PM 1405 Views
Re: Dude. Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 04:44:24 PM 1186 Views
Heh. click the link. Avendesora - 10/05/2010 05:45:53 PM 1361 Views
Re: <whistles> Bayyyyybeee. Danae al'Thor - 10/05/2010 06:04:51 PM 1233 Views
Perv. *NM* Avendesora - 11/05/2010 02:00:43 AM 694 Views
Re: Danae-Log: So. What makes life worth living? lyringlas - 11/05/2010 09:28:09 PM 1254 Views
Love and the people who share it still seem the best answer. Joel - 12/05/2010 01:01:51 AM 1261 Views
I don't think it's a question to ask, but a decision to make Helene - 14/05/2010 07:38:46 PM 1404 Views
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