Unless you're privy to information we aren't, it's irresponsible for you to make that claim.
and even high school friends that were abused by their boyfriends, and as far as I could see in their situations they had every opportunity to leave their abusers but they chose to be victims far longer than they should have. There is some responsibility that lies with the victim who lets herself be victimized, especially in a situation where her unborn child is in constant danger. This isnt Afghanistan where a woman cant get help for abuse or turn to the authorities for help when she is in danger. and on top of that signing a piece of paper that says he can beat her as long as he avoids her stomach? thats a bit much, anyone with half a brain would know to bolt from a guy like that, especially if you are pregnant. Women like her need therapy to get over whatever fucked them up enough to stay in a relationship like that int he first place.
Aisha - formerly known as randschicka
Man Accused of Forcing Pregnant Teen Girlfriend to Sign "Abuse Contract"
- 05/06/2010 03:06:07 PM
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How about: if you don't sign this I'll kill you, your parents, and your baby sister
- 05/06/2010 04:10:55 PM
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Re: Man Accused of Forcing Pregnant Teen Girlfriend to Sign "Abuse Contract"
- 05/06/2010 05:08:41 PM
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How do you think one goes about negotiating a contract like that?
- 05/06/2010 11:24:48 PM
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I think they both deserve some criticism
- 06/06/2010 03:43:33 AM
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- 06/06/2010 03:43:33 AM
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It's inappropriate for you to judge an abused woman for sticking with her abuser.
- 06/06/2010 04:17:31 AM
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i have known alot of abused women
- 06/06/2010 05:34:22 AM
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Again, if he threatens to track her down and kill her, and threatens to kill others dear to her
- 06/06/2010 07:55:11 AM
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Nuh-uh. Obviously she's stupid because she has psychological issues. Or something. *NM*
- 06/06/2010 08:59:14 PM
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Someone crazy enough to make someone sign a contract like that is also crazy enough to hunt her down
- 06/06/2010 09:29:53 PM
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Re: Again, if he threatens to track her down and kill her, and threatens to kill others dear to her
- 07/06/2010 02:36:30 AM
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Exactly
- 06/06/2010 09:48:32 AM
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The problem for women like this one is that leaving the relationship is the most dangerous time.
- 07/06/2010 03:57:11 PM
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I'll judge all I want, thanks
- 06/06/2010 09:39:25 AM
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- 06/06/2010 09:39:25 AM
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Ah, yes. That little known method of psychological therapy--calling people stupid. *NM*
- 06/06/2010 09:01:20 PM
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I don't think that "contract" has any legal standing, but of course IANAL *NM*
- 07/06/2010 03:07:00 AM
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There is no way in hell any court would uphold that purported "contract".
- 07/06/2010 08:16:28 PM
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A not-really-realted case but with similarities is currently up in the Swedish courts
- 07/06/2010 08:40:01 PM
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The House of Lords decided the same point for English law in 1993.
- 07/06/2010 09:47:54 PM
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