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i have known alot of abused women Aisha Send a noteboard - 06/06/2010 05:34:22 AM
Unless you're privy to information we aren't, it's irresponsible for you to make that claim.


and even high school friends that were abused by their boyfriends, and as far as I could see in their situations they had every opportunity to leave their abusers but they chose to be victims far longer than they should have. There is some responsibility that lies with the victim who lets herself be victimized, especially in a situation where her unborn child is in constant danger. This isnt Afghanistan where a woman cant get help for abuse or turn to the authorities for help when she is in danger. and on top of that signing a piece of paper that says he can beat her as long as he avoids her stomach? thats a bit much, anyone with half a brain would know to bolt from a guy like that, especially if you are pregnant. Women like her need therapy to get over whatever fucked them up enough to stay in a relationship like that int he first place.
Aisha - formerly known as randschicka
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How do you think one goes about negotiating a contract like that? - 05/06/2010 11:24:48 PM 386 Views
I think they both deserve some criticism - 06/06/2010 03:43:33 AM 422 Views
It's inappropriate for you to judge an abused woman for sticking with her abuser. - 06/06/2010 04:17:31 AM 383 Views
i have known alot of abused women - 06/06/2010 05:34:22 AM 398 Views
Again, if he threatens to track her down and kill her, and threatens to kill others dear to her - 06/06/2010 07:55:11 AM 361 Views
not to mention the psychology behind abuse victims. - 06/06/2010 09:22:23 AM 366 Views
Nuh-uh. Obviously she's stupid because she has psychological issues. Or something. *NM* - 06/06/2010 08:59:14 PM 154 Views
He obviously does too - 07/06/2010 12:46:58 AM 385 Views
Re: Again, if he threatens to track her down and kill her, and threatens to kill others dear to her - 07/06/2010 02:36:30 AM 438 Views
It's not. - 07/06/2010 07:33:05 AM 334 Views
the police also did nothing when SHE called. - 07/06/2010 07:38:37 AM 381 Views
Exactly - 06/06/2010 09:48:32 AM 382 Views
I'll judge all I want, thanks - 06/06/2010 09:39:25 AM 430 Views
Ah, yes. That little known method of psychological therapy--calling people stupid. *NM* - 06/06/2010 09:01:20 PM 220 Views
I'M not giving her therapy. We don't know eachother. - 07/06/2010 12:31:38 AM 374 Views
He's a boy, not a friend - 06/06/2010 12:03:40 AM 373 Views
He'll be taken care of in jail - 06/06/2010 05:14:25 AM 411 Views
I laughed. Hard. *NM* - 07/06/2010 05:00:49 PM 155 Views

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