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But I don't. Camilla Send a noteboard - 23/08/2010 11:33:16 PM
It may just be Edinburgh.
But I'd say I've been to most cafés in the centre of Edinburgh, and I have had this experience at a number of them. And not just the small ones. Kilimanjaro (where this happened) is not small. And as I said, Elephant House is almost designed for it.

British people also avoid sharing tables whenever possible. However, when that isn't possible (because all the tables are occupied), the next best thing is to pick the table with the fewest other people on it (i.e. yours, because you're on your own) and politely ask permission to sit there. But not try to make conversation with strangers. That's just wrong. Clearly this person was a bit dotty.


See, in Norway, if the tables are occupied, you leave.

The solution is either to go to less crowded places, or to bring someone else with you. Preferably someone who also has a lot of work to do, and who you don't particularly want to chat with.


I keep going to less crowded places, but they inevitably shut down.
*MySmiley*
structured procrastinator
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well thats just terrilbe - 23/08/2010 04:51:20 PM 614 Views
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I think I might be Norwegian. - 23/08/2010 05:06:29 PM 661 Views
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How American of you - 23/08/2010 05:18:48 PM 751 Views
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I am American - and I share my table often. - 23/08/2010 09:48:08 PM 612 Views
How rude. - 23/08/2010 07:57:45 PM 648 Views
Indeed - 23/08/2010 07:59:11 PM 650 Views
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I think the problem is that you go into small cafés. - 23/08/2010 10:28:04 PM 621 Views
But I don't. - 23/08/2010 11:33:16 PM 608 Views
Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 23/08/2010 11:45:35 PM 588 Views
Re: Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 23/08/2010 11:50:16 PM 601 Views
Re: Kilimanjaro is pretty small really. - 24/08/2010 12:13:16 AM 678 Views
You should keep - 24/08/2010 12:06:41 AM 648 Views
Re: You should keep - 24/08/2010 10:12:23 AM 596 Views
Urgh, table-sharing lunatics. - 24/08/2010 02:12:42 PM 626 Views
Re: Urgh, table-sharing lunatics. - 24/08/2010 03:58:30 PM 647 Views
it wouldn't bother me to have someone sit at my table - 24/08/2010 04:29:49 PM 637 Views
Re: it wouldn't bother me to have someone sit at my table - 24/08/2010 04:32:04 PM 596 Views
I have been told I am lacking in some needed social inhibitions - 24/08/2010 10:14:52 PM 596 Views
Me either. I suspect it's a southern thing. - 24/08/2010 09:44:08 PM 627 Views
probably true *NM* - 24/08/2010 10:16:05 PM 263 Views

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