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Re: *shrugs* Sports_Gambler Send a noteboard - 29/08/2010 05:56:46 PM
No idea. I was also always seriously picky, and only found something when I wasn't looking for anything at all. It's one of those terribly cliched things, unfortunately. :P

Do you ever have issues with self-confidence and the like? Because my standards tended to end me up pining after guys who were unobtainable - hindsight leads me to believe that it was a subconscious way to avoid really getting into something. Fear, maybe. I get along with guys really well, but as soon as one showed more interest, I'd freak out and starting thinking the guy had to be a lunatic.


Completely explained by seduction theory. The hotter the girl the pickier they are (I'm complimenting you here) - :P If a guy shows too much interest and starts pursuing too eagerly, that lowers his apparent value in the girl's eyes, so she loses interest (this is all unconscious of course, no conscious calculations are at work). You sound like the sort of girl that responds well to 'negs' (fun teasing).

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Arrgh! How do people DO it?? ßelals Girl - 29/08/2010 12:21:06 AM 1375 Views
Lots of rough sex helps. *NM* Urza - 29/08/2010 12:22:31 AM 329 Views
Yeah. When are you coming over? *NM* ßelals Girl - 03/09/2010 07:38:43 PM 477 Views
It seems like you're not making things easier by taking nationality as a criterium... Legolas - 29/08/2010 12:29:59 AM 874 Views
^ this LadyLorraine - 29/08/2010 01:08:29 AM 747 Views
Re: ^ this nossy - 29/08/2010 01:11:46 AM 977 Views
i know LadyLorraine - 29/08/2010 02:27:13 AM 999 Views
erm...excuse me? ironclad - 29/08/2010 11:18:05 AM 890 Views
This again. Ghavrel - 29/08/2010 01:56:22 AM 902 Views
Very true *NM* ironclad - 29/08/2010 11:19:02 AM 453 Views
I know that ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 01:51:43 AM 882 Views
Move to Germany/Europe, then? *NM* Legolas - 02/09/2010 11:12:37 AM 453 Views
They are NOT letting me in ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 08:37:18 PM 902 Views
Yeah, you'd need to get an employer to sponsor you, I imagine. Legolas - 02/09/2010 10:41:51 PM 740 Views
*shrugs* nossy - 29/08/2010 01:28:44 AM 1025 Views
Re: *shrugs* Sports_Gambler - 29/08/2010 05:56:46 PM 976 Views
Re: *shrugs* ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 01:55:47 AM 974 Views
Stop looking. Maria - 29/08/2010 01:51:08 AM 897 Views
<support of wise wisdom from person it worked for> *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/08/2010 02:28:15 AM 477 Views
Yes. This is how it was for me. Rebekah - 03/09/2010 05:17:50 PM 1188 Views
Why Germans?? Dragonsoul - 29/08/2010 02:30:39 AM 818 Views
Why not? ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 01:56:28 AM 910 Views
Have you considered simply eating German Chocolate Cake instead? *NM* TaskmasterJack - 29/08/2010 02:31:42 AM 483 Views
Nope. It's disgusting. ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 01:57:03 AM 910 Views
Well, it's not human flesh, but it's still very good. TaskmasterJack - 02/09/2010 03:12:45 AM 768 Views
i'm marrying a german. so it can happen... temeraire - 29/08/2010 02:53:00 AM 985 Views
Lucky! ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 02:01:56 AM 886 Views
Oh right. I forgot to jump down your throat for this. ironclad - 02/09/2010 09:58:19 AM 851 Views
Hm, as others said, try different criteria. Avendesora - 29/08/2010 02:56:01 AM 976 Views
But she clearly wants a cannibal and Amazonian tribesmen don't have internet! *NM* TaskmasterJack - 29/08/2010 03:13:18 AM 470 Views
The trick is knowing who you want and being what he wants Helene - 29/08/2010 07:58:42 AM 855 Views
yes they are moondog - 29/08/2010 05:14:36 PM 875 Views
pllp, Americans INVENTED the assembly line, you know *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/08/2010 05:44:31 PM 334 Views
yes but "american efficiency" just doesn't seem to have that world reknown for some reason... *NM* moondog - 29/08/2010 06:15:13 PM 401 Views
just an observation, but those who actually INVENT an efficiency LadyLorraine - 29/08/2010 06:42:50 PM 890 Views
Wow, really? ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 08:41:46 PM 923 Views
What's attractive about Germans in particular? Helene - 04/09/2010 07:12:13 AM 1077 Views
Are you in Germany? Camilla - 29/08/2010 11:42:07 AM 828 Views
I have a thing for Spanish and French girls Sports_Gambler - 29/08/2010 06:09:03 PM 906 Views
Re: What's wrong with being an old maid? *NM* Danae al'Thor - 29/08/2010 08:55:47 PM 483 Views
Hmmm... Jacob - 30/08/2010 06:27:01 PM 839 Views
Re: Being old is good! Danae al'Thor - 30/08/2010 07:18:09 PM 861 Views
Sure... sure. Jacob - 30/08/2010 07:21:29 PM 929 Views
Re: Means you've survived, right? *NM* Danae al'Thor - 31/08/2010 12:50:12 AM 446 Views
Evolution is working for you if you're passing on genes to your offspring. *NM* Darth_Katie - 30/08/2010 08:08:57 PM 426 Views
Re: No, evolution works for me if I live longer. Danae al'Thor - 31/08/2010 12:49:26 AM 996 Views
Nothing, if that's what someone wants to be ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 08:38:39 PM 955 Views
We need to learn who were are and be content in singleness before we make a better mate. Zalis - 29/08/2010 09:18:13 PM 866 Views
What he said. *NM* Keira - 31/08/2010 10:48:39 PM 489 Views
I know this ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 02:06:28 AM 814 Views
I'd sleep with you......I think. *NM* Ectheledhel - 30/08/2010 01:28:53 PM 492 Views
And they say that Chivalry is dead... *NM* Michael - 31/08/2010 03:08:39 PM 459 Views
Wasn't my resume impressive enough? *NM* ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 02:06:52 AM 437 Views
Possible solution Stephen - 30/08/2010 06:11:51 PM 975 Views
Way ahead of you ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 02:10:31 AM 1066 Views
I wouldn't know... Phelix - 30/08/2010 07:55:30 PM 3175 Views
Even after all these years... ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 02:11:25 AM 960 Views
Phelix - 02/09/2010 02:15:45 AM 962 Views
Aaaaaand I probably shouldn't post right after getting "dumped." *NM* ßelals Girl - 02/09/2010 02:12:16 AM 525 Views
That's silly. Jacob - 02/09/2010 02:30:34 PM 985 Views
Aw, thank you *NM* ßelals Girl - 03/09/2010 11:03:55 AM 475 Views
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