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Or nossy Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM
Here's one of the really hard parts though... He still has to go back to that state twice every year for work. He'll be back in the spring. I won't be able to trust him. It will be in my head the entire time he's there. I don't want to live like that.

Then tell him that, if he's serious about making things right, he has to get a different job that doesn't require him to travel.

Talk to him about it, and see if he can realize what a big thing that is. It's a tricky situation, but if she does decide she can trust him again, she actually has to do so. While it would be hard to avoid, holding this thing over his head for the rest of his life is not healthy either. It's all part of her upcoming choices.:)
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that's really tough nossy - 05/10/2010 03:09:44 PM 751 Views
Re: that's really tough lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:16:41 PM 934 Views
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I don't know what to say. Avendesora - 05/10/2010 03:51:23 PM 702 Views
Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM 853 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM 978 Views
I know, that'll be the toughest part ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:11:56 PM 699 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... Macharius - 05/10/2010 04:50:44 PM 713 Views
Or nossy - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM 742 Views
Yeah. Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:06:11 PM 715 Views
Right nossy - 05/10/2010 05:19:29 PM 713 Views
Re: Or Macharius - 05/10/2010 05:56:19 PM 652 Views
It's possible Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:00:57 PM 708 Views
That's irrelavant. Palatine - 05/10/2010 05:13:00 PM 691 Views
I agree with what Jens said (similarly not knowing any other details) LadyLorraine - 05/10/2010 05:25:18 PM 676 Views
I'm sorry. Camilla - 05/10/2010 05:02:16 PM 675 Views
What happened exactly? Dan - 05/10/2010 05:52:23 PM 719 Views
Re: What happened exactly? lil lady - 05/10/2010 06:01:42 PM 1009 Views
I'm really sorry to hear that... Wulf`gar - 05/10/2010 06:04:54 PM 670 Views
That sucks and there is no easy answer random thoughts - 05/10/2010 06:28:24 PM 676 Views
Cripes. Missa Sedai - 05/10/2010 11:17:21 PM 669 Views
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*hugs* globug0822 - 06/10/2010 06:00:40 AM 639 Views
That's terrible; I wish I could offer advice, but support and prayers are the best I can do. Joel - 06/10/2010 06:18:02 AM 713 Views
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