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nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again random thoughts Send a noteboard - 12/10/2010 09:34:33 PM

The banks will operate in what they consider their own best interest without regards to your wellbeing.

Your point being?


My point being why would yu not do what is in your best interest without regards to them? Are you a sheep that will alow his moral code to be used to lead him to slaughter without even questioning it?

I think is funny, just not in a haha sort of way, that you ask my point but then ignored it a couple of line down. The banks first obligationis to the shareholdres, shouldn't yours be to your family? Is it moral to let pride keep you from meeting that obligation by not doing what is in their best interest?

They will argue that their first obligation is to their stock holders.

Because it is true. That makes it a very good argument.


I owe no obligation to their stockholders. If they can do whatever is legal to advance their interest why should regular people feel a moral obligation to not do the same?

Wouldn't a lean holder’s first obligation be to their family? You did not enter a blood oath you enter a legal contract. A legal contract that leaves you the legal right to walk away at the cost of the home and your credit rating. Is it immoral to exercise that legal right?
Is it moral to murder someone as long as you are perfectly willing to serve the time? Penalties are not an alternative contract, they are a deterrant. It IS immoral (no one asked about legality here, and the article above appeared to be trying to differentiate between the two concepts & standards) to do something wrong, regardless of whether or not you accept the penalties. If the bank wanted your house, they'd buy it themselves rather than loaning the money out to you. And by not paying the interest, you are depriving the bank of their rightful recompense for the service they provided you (which is what interest is). You are morally NO different than the owner of a company who files for bankruptcy to avoid paying off his employees while still possessing the means to do so. In both cases, one party is avoiding the rightful payment for services rendered.


That is a stupid argument since murder is not legal.

Is it rational to act against your own best interest by behaving in a “moral” manner with and company that feels no obligations about treating you in a moral way or their own debts for that matter?
The actions of others have NO bearing on the morality of your own, except when you are reacting to an action that directly affects you. If they are attempting to defraud you that is one thing. Refusing to follow through on your end of a transaction is another entirely.


The actions of others do not affect my morality but they do affect how I act towards them. I believe in treating people with respect, until they disrespect me. If banks choose to do whatever is legal why would I not be willing to play by the rules they set?

I think there are some moral questions about what affect your actions have on society as a whole but I really don't think there are any good arguments that you have moral obligation towards the bank. I legal obligation but not a moral one.

If a bank has the ability to walk away from a huge amount of debt they would do so without thinking about. They do not feel constrained by any concept of a gentleman’s contract.
Bullshit speculation. The affirmation that someone MIGHT do something is not justification in the least, or else any sort of crime or injury could be excused as a preemptive redress. The bank could sieze your assets the same way, claiming that you intended to default.


And the bank would seize my assets if they thought doing so was in their best interest and they could legally do so. They would think they had a moral obligation to shareholders to do so. It is not bullshit speculation it is simple observations.
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Is walking away from a mortgage immoral? - 12/10/2010 04:45:43 PM 1559 Views
Just as a contract is a two way street - - 12/10/2010 05:12:09 PM 1037 Views
do we have a moral obligation to society? - 12/10/2010 06:00:17 PM 1024 Views
It's a good question - 14/10/2010 02:41:21 AM 932 Views
Sort of have to disagree... - 13/10/2010 02:52:07 AM 998 Views
That's not true actually - 14/10/2010 02:35:43 AM 931 Views
Of course it's immoral. - 12/10/2010 05:13:16 PM 1006 Views
But does one sided morality work? - 12/10/2010 05:38:56 PM 1119 Views
That's the only kind of morality there is! What the hell is wrong with you? - 12/10/2010 08:15:55 PM 953 Views
nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again - 12/10/2010 09:34:33 PM 938 Views
Re: nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again - 15/10/2010 02:50:49 PM 1449 Views
well I really can't argue with the wrong is wrong end of story belief system - 15/10/2010 05:40:22 PM 1138 Views
A contract isn't a promise; it's a legal agreement. *NM* - 12/10/2010 06:25:24 PM 467 Views
Which is why contracts have to be pages and pages long and combed over by bloodsucking lawyers. - 12/10/2010 06:39:18 PM 977 Views
I would agree with you if contracts didn't provide for breaking them. - 12/10/2010 07:33:15 PM 829 Views
Hrm. - 12/10/2010 07:35:38 PM 1048 Views
It's not immoral to break the marriage contract. - 12/10/2010 08:19:50 PM 1093 Views
I don't see that as the flaw in my logic. - 12/10/2010 08:37:52 PM 1007 Views
Re: I don't see that as the flaw in my logic. - 12/10/2010 09:00:00 PM 1089 Views
also - 12/10/2010 09:37:38 PM 945 Views
That makes no sense whatsoever. - 13/10/2010 11:38:06 PM 1085 Views
That must be why they have you sign something called an agreementory note *NM* - 12/10/2010 07:33:32 PM 487 Views
Exactly *NM* - 12/10/2010 07:58:25 PM 453 Views
So, you think bankruptcy laws are immoral? - 13/10/2010 12:18:43 AM 979 Views
I don't think it's immoral at all. The contract usually specifies penalties for breach. - 12/10/2010 05:28:34 PM 1085 Views
I thought the answer might be something like that. *NM* - 12/10/2010 05:35:35 PM 439 Views
that is close to the way I see it - 12/10/2010 05:45:25 PM 936 Views
It's both legal and immoral. - 12/10/2010 06:37:49 PM 1008 Views
You didn't mention the third party - 12/10/2010 08:26:56 PM 858 Views
in a way I did since I did mention society - 12/10/2010 08:54:07 PM 1008 Views
Thus the edit - 12/10/2010 09:10:53 PM 1028 Views
either way I think you made a good point *NM* - 12/10/2010 09:38:58 PM 431 Views
will those neighbors... - 14/10/2010 04:52:26 AM 1171 Views
All depends where you get your morals from, really. - 12/10/2010 08:28:41 PM 1001 Views
I guess what i was trying to ask, at least in part - 12/10/2010 09:48:24 PM 1007 Views
What if you look at it from the other perspective? - 12/10/2010 09:00:20 PM 1033 Views
do you think they would if they had a legal way to do it? - 12/10/2010 10:04:57 PM 982 Views
Good point. *NM* - 12/10/2010 11:10:26 PM 453 Views
Sure, you could do that. - 13/10/2010 01:54:55 AM 1028 Views
Much like the concept of morality itself. - 12/10/2010 11:47:23 PM 929 Views
I find this line particularly interesting. - 13/10/2010 12:13:18 AM 965 Views
Dunno. - 13/10/2010 12:56:56 AM 1067 Views
As a professional in financial services - no, it is not. - 13/10/2010 01:44:18 AM 965 Views
but almost nobody sees it that way - 13/10/2010 12:53:25 PM 966 Views
Is the deal that if you default, the bank gets the house and nothing else, though? - 13/10/2010 02:40:48 PM 954 Views
yes but the bank has a limited ability to collect - 13/10/2010 02:47:34 PM 872 Views
I think it's morally wrong to walk away from credit card debt. *NM* - 13/10/2010 09:43:11 PM 442 Views
I'm curious how you reconcile that - 13/10/2010 09:47:59 PM 987 Views
Collateral - 19/10/2010 07:21:14 PM 1482 Views
I agree, what do you think is different? - 13/10/2010 09:59:36 PM 978 Views
I lost sleep over it, but I did it anyway. - 13/10/2010 05:24:19 AM 1059 Views
OK what if you take it a step further - 13/10/2010 03:44:30 PM 1068 Views
Good question - 14/10/2010 05:13:41 AM 1034 Views
I have some questions about this issue. - 13/10/2010 08:14:37 AM 983 Views
how do those questions affect the morality of the situation? - 13/10/2010 03:20:14 PM 929 Views
Obviously, the essential difference is can't pay versus won't pay. - 13/10/2010 02:16:07 PM 949 Views
are you socializing your debt when it is a private bank? - 13/10/2010 03:14:48 PM 1003 Views
You are when said bank requires a bailout. And very many of them do. - 13/10/2010 03:22:59 PM 952 Views
it is the home fault that the banks have to be bailed out - 13/10/2010 03:49:37 PM 999 Views
I believe it immoral to do harm. - 13/10/2010 04:38:28 PM 1017 Views
I really don't understand a system where this could be an advantage. - 13/10/2010 11:16:57 PM 958 Views
There's generally something like a 7 or 10 year limit on credit reporting here. - 13/10/2010 11:46:58 PM 984 Views
What's the use of suing someone who has no money? *NM* - 13/10/2010 11:48:47 PM 502 Views
You can garnish their wages. - 13/10/2010 11:49:36 PM 964 Views
With parsley? - 13/10/2010 11:51:37 PM 1041 Views
No, "someone" most certainly did not, wicked young Miss! Hmph! *NM* - 13/10/2010 11:52:40 PM 489 Views
If they suddenly come into some, you're entitled to it. *NM* - 14/10/2010 12:07:34 AM 566 Views
Bit of a long shot. *NM* - 14/10/2010 12:09:12 AM 439 Views
Very. Best to cover your bases though. *NM* - 14/10/2010 10:04:25 PM 456 Views
Not if the doctrine of election applies. - 14/10/2010 10:14:07 PM 940 Views
Are we not talking about credit companies going after people who owe them money? - 14/10/2010 10:18:47 PM 983 Views
Yeah, I guess we are. - 14/10/2010 10:28:40 PM 1014 Views
Re: - 14/10/2010 03:09:18 AM 988 Views
I am currently in that situation... - 14/10/2010 05:03:23 AM 1088 Views
Re: I am currently in that situation... - 14/10/2010 05:49:24 PM 1299 Views
it is easy for me and others to be glib when it is just a theory *NM* - 14/10/2010 08:19:16 PM 444 Views

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