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That's not true actually SilverWarder Send a noteboard - 14/10/2010 02:35:43 AM

Trust - goes both ways. If the bank expects to trust you to make payments (even when it is financially stupid to do so) then the flip side of that trust is to expect that the bank will be supportive and helpful with long term, trusthworthy customers when there are issues and problems in the other direction.


...at least with this part.

The typical agreement is that the bank will lend you $x and you will pay it back under the agreed upon terms. You are breaking that agreement by walking away from that loan. You said above the flip side is to expect the bank to be supportive and helpful. Unless that was part of the agreement, it's not really the flip side, is it?

In cases of the people defaulting, they are breaking the agreement. In cases where the bank isn't supportive or helpful...they still didn't break the agreement.


The contract is that you will pay them X etc. OR forfeit the property. That forfeit is every bit as much part of the contract as the other. Walking away isn't a breach of the agreement, it's simply selecting the other option available to you in the contract.

The article makes this quite clear. So do all mortgage documents.
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it is easy for me and others to be glib when it is just a theory *NM* - 14/10/2010 08:19:16 PM 435 Views

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