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Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM
so that when you do quit you will leave her in a world of hurt. But you are already doing that. So I guess nothing.

Practice being an actress. You could ham it up. Pretend that it doesn't bother you and that you actually appreciate her!! Pretend you are going for the acadamy award for fake happiness!

Also, if you pray, you might try praying for her. Even if it doesn't change her heart it might change yours and make the burden a little lighter.

Sorry you are going through this. Come to think of it, I am going through the same thing. Doh!!! Happily I have people at home and work I can vent to.

Love,
Teresa
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Office Bully Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1262 Views
Rat poison. *NM* Tom - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 335 Views
Oh yes. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 690 Views
In all seriousness, we don't have enough information on exactly what she's saying/doing. Tom - 16/11/2010 11:21:22 PM 720 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 296 Views
this is what I was thinking. LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 689 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor moondog - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 757 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 308 Views
do you have an HR department? moondog - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 763 Views
Punch her? *NM* Kronin al'Sulc - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 356 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR Kel - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 767 Views
Re: Office Bully skippy - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 738 Views
Hrm. Whether there's recourse or not depends on whether you're supported by management Sareitha Sedai - 16/11/2010 04:14:20 PM 713 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 769 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 349 Views
I've spoken to her Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 711 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 371 Views
you could stop bullying people random thoughts - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 745 Views
*NM* Birdeye - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 393 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 356 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 343 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 750 Views
oh please random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 881 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 711 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 338 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 803 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 735 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 690 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 738 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 329 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 382 Views
*NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 356 Views
*NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 344 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 348 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 683 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 669 Views
Some people make it easy. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 623 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* Avendesora - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 316 Views
Re: Ditto. Gaps - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 735 Views
Dittoditto nossy - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 815 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 723 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 691 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 331 Views
She would likely open the door for me. Amyrlin - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 702 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* Legolas - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 342 Views
It's not full time Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 703 Views
Definitely time to go then. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 844 Views
Re: Gaps - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 821 Views
We had a bully. nossy - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 765 Views
^this. moondog - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 816 Views
Is the bully the boss? MightyYT - 17/11/2010 03:28:08 AM 913 Views
You don't give enough information for us to be able to give you constructive advice *NM* Helene - 18/11/2010 11:30:16 AM 296 Views
How does one combat douchbaggery? Mats Gambling Buddy - 18/11/2010 05:16:20 PM 665 Views
Alas Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:06:38 PM 1011 Views
Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 336 Views
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