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Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM
so that when you do quit you will leave her in a world of hurt. But you are already doing that. So I guess nothing.

Practice being an actress. You could ham it up. Pretend that it doesn't bother you and that you actually appreciate her!! Pretend you are going for the acadamy award for fake happiness!

Also, if you pray, you might try praying for her. Even if it doesn't change her heart it might change yours and make the burden a little lighter.

Sorry you are going through this. Come to think of it, I am going through the same thing. Doh!!! Happily I have people at home and work I can vent to.

Love,
Teresa
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Office Bully Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1361 Views
Rat poison. *NM* Tom - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 374 Views
Oh yes. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 778 Views
In all seriousness, we don't have enough information on exactly what she's saying/doing. Tom - 16/11/2010 11:21:22 PM 805 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 332 Views
this is what I was thinking. LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 769 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor moondog - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 842 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 337 Views
do you have an HR department? moondog - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 853 Views
Punch her? *NM* Kronin al'Sulc - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 394 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR Kel - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 862 Views
Re: Office Bully skippy - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 841 Views
Hrm. Whether there's recourse or not depends on whether you're supported by management Sareitha Sedai - 16/11/2010 04:14:20 PM 793 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 855 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 387 Views
I've spoken to her Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 814 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 407 Views
you could stop bullying people random thoughts - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 834 Views
*NM* Birdeye - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 436 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 395 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 381 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 835 Views
oh please random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 967 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 809 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 383 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 903 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 825 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 780 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 811 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 364 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 416 Views
*NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 399 Views
*NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 388 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 390 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 774 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 760 Views
Some people make it easy. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 722 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* Avendesora - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 351 Views
Re: Ditto. Gaps - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 812 Views
Dittoditto nossy - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 908 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 819 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 765 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 360 Views
She would likely open the door for me. Amyrlin - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 792 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* Legolas - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 378 Views
It's not full time Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 794 Views
Definitely time to go then. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 925 Views
Re: Gaps - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 909 Views
We had a bully. nossy - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 854 Views
^this. moondog - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 910 Views
Is the bully the boss? MightyYT - 17/11/2010 03:28:08 AM 1000 Views
You don't give enough information for us to be able to give you constructive advice *NM* Helene - 18/11/2010 11:30:16 AM 325 Views
How does one combat douchbaggery? Mats Gambling Buddy - 18/11/2010 05:16:20 PM 754 Views
Alas Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:06:38 PM 1099 Views
Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 369 Views
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