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Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM
so that when you do quit you will leave her in a world of hurt. But you are already doing that. So I guess nothing.

Practice being an actress. You could ham it up. Pretend that it doesn't bother you and that you actually appreciate her!! Pretend you are going for the acadamy award for fake happiness!

Also, if you pray, you might try praying for her. Even if it doesn't change her heart it might change yours and make the burden a little lighter.

Sorry you are going through this. Come to think of it, I am going through the same thing. Doh!!! Happily I have people at home and work I can vent to.

Love,
Teresa
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Office Bully Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:19:36 AM 1353 Views
Rat poison. *NM* Tom - 16/11/2010 04:37:34 AM 371 Views
Oh yes. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:20 AM 769 Views
In all seriousness, we don't have enough information on exactly what she's saying/doing. Tom - 16/11/2010 11:21:22 PM 793 Views
How does she not answer to anyone? Is she the manager? *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 05:37:52 AM 329 Views
this is what I was thinking. LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:49:03 AM 757 Views
i worked with a guy once who was the owner's neighbor moondog - 16/11/2010 06:42:34 AM 835 Views
She is the owner's wife. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:40:30 PM 334 Views
do you have an HR department? moondog - 16/11/2010 06:40:29 AM 843 Views
Punch her? *NM* Kronin al'Sulc - 16/11/2010 06:42:44 AM 392 Views
Do your job, talk to your manager or HR Kel - 16/11/2010 01:04:05 PM 852 Views
Re: Office Bully skippy - 16/11/2010 04:01:17 PM 828 Views
Hrm. Whether there's recourse or not depends on whether you're supported by management Sareitha Sedai - 16/11/2010 04:14:20 PM 787 Views
There is no HR dept/ and she is the owner's wife. Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 04:37:09 PM 848 Views
...have you tried talking with her about it, or are you just assuming it will go poorly? *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 05:03:18 PM 385 Views
I've spoken to her Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:45:26 PM 802 Views
ah yah. in that case, you can probably only quit or "deal" *NM* LadyLorraine - 16/11/2010 07:48:31 PM 405 Views
you could stop bullying people random thoughts - 16/11/2010 04:50:42 PM 825 Views
*NM* Birdeye - 16/11/2010 06:13:25 PM 432 Views
wow. I just don't know what to say to that. *NM* Amyrlin - 16/11/2010 07:44:14 PM 391 Views
which part did you have a problem with? *NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 08:15:02 PM 377 Views
Well, that was utterly uncalled for. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 08:26:28 PM 829 Views
oh please random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:37:40 PM 960 Views
I don't read every thread on this board. I don't have to. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:04:56 PM 798 Views
I didn't take that as rudenes. I am pretty sure he was just teasing. *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:55:35 PM 380 Views
I thought that was possible on the original reply. The second removed my doubt. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:08:04 PM 893 Views
I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:14:52 PM 820 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Rebekah - 16/11/2010 11:16:57 PM 769 Views
Re: I took that as a good natured tease. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:39:45 AM 804 Views
As did I, actually. *NM* Ghavrel - 16/11/2010 11:25:13 PM 359 Views
Sign me up under this one, too. *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 17/11/2010 10:45:00 PM 415 Views
*NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:31:13 PM 396 Views
*NM* random thoughts - 16/11/2010 10:47:03 PM 385 Views
Oh you know it! Your reply was nothing but poop flinging. *NM* Beqi - 16/11/2010 10:51:07 PM 387 Views
Wow. I read what he said totally different from everyone else. I took the first part as teasing Tashmere - 16/11/2010 10:57:58 PM 767 Views
You are much better at thinking the best of people! Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:02:24 PM 753 Views
Some people make it easy. Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:05:08 PM 711 Views
I thought he was teasing too. *NM* Avendesora - 17/11/2010 02:26:35 AM 348 Views
Re: Ditto. Gaps - 17/11/2010 02:30:20 AM 805 Views
Dittoditto nossy - 17/11/2010 03:24:39 AM 900 Views
Make sure that you are doing a superb job... Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:02:44 PM 809 Views
You could tell her you are ready to quit if things continue. Beqi - 16/11/2010 11:05:00 PM 757 Views
What would happen if you told her that, Amy? *NM* Tashmere - 16/11/2010 11:08:28 PM 359 Views
She would likely open the door for me. Amyrlin - 17/11/2010 12:35:23 AM 782 Views
The photography thing is just a hobby/extra income for now, then? *NM* Legolas - 17/11/2010 12:38:17 AM 376 Views
It's not full time Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:08:22 PM 789 Views
Definitely time to go then. Tashmere - 17/11/2010 12:45:35 AM 919 Views
Re: Gaps - 17/11/2010 12:12:02 AM 902 Views
We had a bully. nossy - 17/11/2010 03:27:31 AM 847 Views
^this. moondog - 18/11/2010 08:37:22 AM 902 Views
Is the bully the boss? MightyYT - 17/11/2010 03:28:08 AM 990 Views
You don't give enough information for us to be able to give you constructive advice *NM* Helene - 18/11/2010 11:30:16 AM 323 Views
How does one combat douchbaggery? Mats Gambling Buddy - 18/11/2010 05:16:20 PM 750 Views
Alas Amyrlin - 18/11/2010 06:06:38 PM 1095 Views
Cut the nozzle and stop pouring in the vinegar solution. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 18/11/2010 11:47:34 PM 367 Views
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