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I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 Send a noteboard - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM
OK, so you don't need to be really good looking, but I think a reasonable photo is needed?


You're right.

But by GOOD I think we should mean: shows YOU in the best possible light.

You know you smiling, being around people you love- generally being an idealized version of who you really are.

A lot of times I see pictures of guys not smiling, trying to look cool but they just some off as... I dunno... cold, unfeeling, boring... there has to be something to connect with there in the photo.

I picked a random sample from my OKCupid homepage to show what I mean. All these profiles are public.

There is really only ONE "good" pic out of them and they are ALL reasonably good looking guys. But their horrible pictures make me feel negatively about them.
~g~

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Do you date? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 12:00:40 AM 1450 Views
I date my wife random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:58:22 AM 1077 Views
errr *NM* random thoughts - 13/01/2011 02:03:16 AM 457 Views
What's all this, then? *NM* globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:31 AM 497 Views
It could be a double post if I wasa noob random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:06:42 PM 935 Views
Ha! POINT! *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:11 AM 492 Views
Smart arse. globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:53 AM 1059 Views
My wife frowns on it. TaskmasterJack - 13/01/2011 03:00:46 AM 1049 Views
Does she, now? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:04 AM 1014 Views
I fail miserably ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 13/01/2011 05:11:37 AM 997 Views
LOL globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:48 AM 935 Views
Re: Do you date? Timthetrolloc - 13/01/2011 05:14:25 AM 1158 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:49:56 AM 980 Views
Re: BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ Timthetrolloc - 17/01/2011 04:26:52 AM 979 Views
No. Never have. Camilla - 13/01/2011 09:16:18 AM 1121 Views
Amen. Joel - 13/01/2011 03:21:21 PM 1036 Views
+1 Clover - 13/01/2011 05:32:11 PM 1029 Views
I've always thought so... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:55 AM 1014 Views
How strange. Clover - 15/01/2011 07:40:59 PM 911 Views
Good for you, globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:07 AM 1032 Views
Not recently, no ironclad - 13/01/2011 10:05:11 AM 1158 Views
Thank you for playing! globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:55:31 AM 971 Views
Once upon a time. nossy - 13/01/2011 01:22:22 PM 1114 Views
*sigh* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:59:07 AM 998 Views
Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 13/01/2011 02:46:41 PM 1061 Views
Re: Dating websites Nate - 13/01/2011 08:57:16 PM 1009 Views
Thanks for sharing. That was interesting. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/01/2011 02:54:10 AM 477 Views
Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:15:27 AM 1193 Views
Re: Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... Nate - 14/01/2011 05:43:50 AM 933 Views
LOL globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:43:52 AM 990 Views
Re: Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 14/01/2011 07:11:01 AM 1023 Views
I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM 1204 Views
Those were the days... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:00:48 AM 987 Views
a long time ago, in a galaxy far away or maybe the same one as this one.... temeraire - 13/01/2011 03:36:38 PM 1072 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Brilliant. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:17:31 AM 966 Views
Nope. Never have. I think there's much less of a tradition of doing that here. Legolas - 13/01/2011 07:52:21 PM 996 Views
I don't think people *really* do it here... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:18:51 AM 891 Views
Do busy drinking to date *NM* mick - 14/01/2011 03:51:40 AM 472 Views
Maybe I should take that up... might help. *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:19:25 AM 451 Views
dating is interesting.... Mat Girl - 14/01/2011 07:16:23 AM 1093 Views
By "interesting" I assume you mean "torturous?" globug0822 - 16/01/2011 04:42:11 AM 935 Views
it definitely can be torturous! Mat Girl - 20/01/2011 03:20:32 AM 1072 Views
Not since I began attending a university that is only ~30% women. Dreaded Anomaly - 14/01/2011 08:41:55 AM 1041 Views
Sure. Jessie - 19/01/2011 04:02:28 AM 962 Views
Exactly! ironclad - 19/01/2011 08:20:32 PM 988 Views
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