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I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 Send a noteboard - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM
OK, so you don't need to be really good looking, but I think a reasonable photo is needed?


You're right.

But by GOOD I think we should mean: shows YOU in the best possible light.

You know you smiling, being around people you love- generally being an idealized version of who you really are.

A lot of times I see pictures of guys not smiling, trying to look cool but they just some off as... I dunno... cold, unfeeling, boring... there has to be something to connect with there in the photo.

I picked a random sample from my OKCupid homepage to show what I mean. All these profiles are public.

There is really only ONE "good" pic out of them and they are ALL reasonably good looking guys. But their horrible pictures make me feel negatively about them.
~g~

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Do you date? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 12:00:40 AM 1333 Views
I date my wife random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:58:22 AM 958 Views
errr *NM* random thoughts - 13/01/2011 02:03:16 AM 402 Views
What's all this, then? *NM* globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:31 AM 437 Views
It could be a double post if I wasa noob random thoughts - 13/01/2011 01:06:42 PM 831 Views
Ha! POINT! *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:11 AM 431 Views
Smart arse. globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:53 AM 929 Views
My wife frowns on it. TaskmasterJack - 13/01/2011 03:00:46 AM 928 Views
Does she, now? globug0822 - 13/01/2011 04:25:04 AM 896 Views
I fail miserably ... The_Muted_Grimaud - 13/01/2011 05:11:37 AM 882 Views
LOL globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:47:48 AM 815 Views
Re: Do you date? Timthetrolloc - 13/01/2011 05:14:25 AM 1037 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:49:56 AM 860 Views
Re: BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Classic. ^_^ Timthetrolloc - 17/01/2011 04:26:52 AM 872 Views
No. Never have. Camilla - 13/01/2011 09:16:18 AM 1012 Views
Amen. Joel - 13/01/2011 03:21:21 PM 916 Views
+1 Clover - 13/01/2011 05:32:11 PM 912 Views
I've always thought so... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:55 AM 906 Views
How strange. Clover - 15/01/2011 07:40:59 PM 796 Views
Good for you, globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:51:07 AM 899 Views
Not recently, no ironclad - 13/01/2011 10:05:11 AM 1047 Views
Thank you for playing! globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:55:31 AM 856 Views
Once upon a time. nossy - 13/01/2011 01:22:22 PM 983 Views
*sigh* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 04:59:07 AM 884 Views
Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 13/01/2011 02:46:41 PM 942 Views
Re: Dating websites Nate - 13/01/2011 08:57:16 PM 882 Views
Thanks for sharing. That was interesting. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/01/2011 02:54:10 AM 419 Views
Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:15:27 AM 1081 Views
Re: Yes, on the subject of OKCupid... Nate - 14/01/2011 05:43:50 AM 819 Views
LOL globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:43:52 AM 872 Views
Re: Dating websites Sports_Gambler - 14/01/2011 07:11:01 AM 906 Views
I would say you're right... with a caveat.... globug0822 - 15/01/2011 12:54:16 AM 1043 Views
Those were the days... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:00:48 AM 882 Views
a long time ago, in a galaxy far away or maybe the same one as this one.... temeraire - 13/01/2011 03:36:38 PM 957 Views
BWAHhAhAHHAaaa. Brilliant. ^_^ globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:17:31 AM 854 Views
Nope. Never have. I think there's much less of a tradition of doing that here. Legolas - 13/01/2011 07:52:21 PM 872 Views
I don't think people *really* do it here... globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:18:51 AM 780 Views
Do busy drinking to date *NM* mick - 14/01/2011 03:51:40 AM 412 Views
Maybe I should take that up... might help. *NM* globug0822 - 14/01/2011 05:19:25 AM 395 Views
dating is interesting.... Mat Girl - 14/01/2011 07:16:23 AM 963 Views
By "interesting" I assume you mean "torturous?" globug0822 - 16/01/2011 04:42:11 AM 811 Views
it definitely can be torturous! Mat Girl - 20/01/2011 03:20:32 AM 948 Views
Not since I began attending a university that is only ~30% women. Dreaded Anomaly - 14/01/2011 08:41:55 AM 921 Views
Sure. Jessie - 19/01/2011 04:02:28 AM 849 Views
Exactly! ironclad - 19/01/2011 08:20:32 PM 868 Views
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