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I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM
There's nothing you can do to change her perception, and she's clearly not willing to behave differently in spite of her perception/feelings. Sounds exhausting and annoying, but if you want to be with someone exhausting and annoying, that's your right. If you don't want to be with someone exhausting and annoying, then you need to be with someone other than her ;)


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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1608 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 755 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 363 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 948 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 783 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 821 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 831 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 798 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 863 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 885 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 909 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 871 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 794 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 954 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 785 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 323 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 319 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 789 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 346 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 776 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 361 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 769 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 747 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 884 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 838 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 840 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 792 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 853 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 874 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 864 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 909 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 808 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 727 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 783 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 743 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 881 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 736 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 824 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 354 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 358 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 354 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 788 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 767 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 353 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1286 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1151 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 786 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 746 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 739 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 351 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 812 Views
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