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That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis Send a noteboard - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM


Nothing to do with insecurity. Some people need to be looked at and admired, or just paid attention to. Doesn't even matter if it's romantic. Even if I'm spending time with someone totally platonically, if someone's not looking at me it's going to bother me. I've even made comments to a few people on non emergency cell phone use when one has the option of interacting with a real live person.



I couldn't tell if you were doing one of those things where you were so blatent it was hard to tell if you're being sarcastic. But basically, "some people just need to be constantly paid attention to," (and that is what this is, constant- the OP says this happens whenever they're out, it's not a one time thing) is essentially the definition of needy and insecure.



I definitely agree that dialing up the obvious checking-her-out might be a good idea, and calm her insecurities (plus, it can be fun- I have nothing against PDAs). But in order to calm her insecurities, let's admit that yes, this girl does seem to have them.
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1631 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 778 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 375 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 981 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 799 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 843 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 854 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 815 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 885 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 906 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 950 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 896 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 822 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 978 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 807 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 332 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 328 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 810 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 357 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 795 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 370 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 789 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 769 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 903 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 857 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 866 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 816 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 870 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 900 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 885 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 931 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 830 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 750 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 804 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 761 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 909 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 757 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 852 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 373 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 366 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 364 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 811 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 787 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 363 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1306 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1169 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 804 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 769 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 762 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 365 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 833 Views
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