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It's not that they're real and you're not. It's that they're real *too*. Vivien Send a noteboard - 14/09/2011 09:15:24 PM
It can also be seen in the way clothes for plus-sized women are advertised: clothes for real women.

I really object to that. I am a real woman even though I don't wear plus sizes. It's going far too far the other way.

The drive should really be encouraging women (and men) to keep themselves to a healthy size - whatever that is for them.


I know that the whole "real" thing rubs a lot of people the wrong way. It's more like they're "real too" and not hideous freaks that should never be seen. Do you not see enough thin women on tv, or in movies, or in magazines, or on billboards, etc? The point of that quote isn't that thin women aren't real, it's that they're not the only ones.

It's also possible it's a response to models that are so thin that they actually die from it. I'm not plus size either but I do find them more relatable, and hey- more "real" than size 00. Not that this is a rational response! Theoretically, anyone can starve themselves, but not many women will have the right proportions for plus size modeling even if they do gain enough weight. If I were to gain weight, I'd probably be pear shaped. So really it's very amusing when people praise someone like Christina Hendricks as a more realistic body ideal because her body is actually a whole lot less attainable without surgery than the body of your run of the mill runway model. But I digress.

Anyway that's just an advertising campaign and I agree that it's not fantastic.
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I agree with you on this. - 14/09/2011 08:37:50 PM 747 Views
It's not that they're real and you're not. It's that they're real *too*. - 14/09/2011 09:15:24 PM 667 Views
I get that. But that's not what they say. And it's not just an advertising campaign. - 14/09/2011 09:35:03 PM 595 Views
You get a range of healthy sizes in regular stores. - 14/09/2011 10:24:20 PM 677 Views
Re: You get a range of healthy sizes in regular stores. - 14/09/2011 10:28:18 PM 734 Views
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Your friend sounds hot. - 15/09/2011 05:38:18 AM 646 Views
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*NM* - 16/09/2011 02:43:45 AM 285 Views
I would encourage you to go back and read my exact post. - 15/09/2011 03:21:02 AM 672 Views
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Should she have a disclaimer across her chest- my breasts are only big because of fat? - 14/09/2011 07:31:29 PM 602 Views
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they do look cute. - 14/09/2011 11:23:54 PM 612 Views
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Tankini. *NM* - 14/09/2011 11:30:20 PM 271 Views
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Best horizontal scrollbar ever. *NM* - 14/09/2011 10:48:47 PM 302 Views
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?? *NM* - 16/09/2011 07:01:42 PM 287 Views
redundant and inaccurate. - 16/09/2011 07:56:40 PM 500 Views
I was saying - 16/09/2011 08:10:09 PM 631 Views
Should it really, though? There's no ambiguity in "well endowed women". - 16/09/2011 09:31:42 PM 510 Views
I might have inherited a pit of water from my father? *NM* - 05/10/2011 11:28:30 AM 234 Views
yeah, bikinis always seem aimed at smaller boobs... - 18/09/2011 06:41:24 PM 603 Views
Re: yeah, bikinis always seem aimed at smaller boobs... - 18/09/2011 06:45:00 PM 585 Views
LOL - 18/09/2011 09:52:28 PM 681 Views

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