i don't want to be angry all the time. im trapped living at home until doomsday and i'm fed up with all the arguments, mess and noise my brother makes and the fact that he treats me like his damn maid. you know the first thing he asked me thursday when i got in from work at 7pm? it wasn't 'how are you?' or 'did you have a nice day? it was 'LUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUULUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU WHAT ARE YOU MAKING FOR DINNER?' and all three of them were back before i was. this boy delights in pissing me off, both him AND my dad find my anger the funniest thing evar.
Specifically to this, tell him nothing or, at least, nothing for you. More generally, if you don't want to argue, simply don't. That is a choice you make. Concerning messes, I only see this as a problem for you if you have to share a room with him. If not, let him and the rest of your family leave the mess as it is. If you clean up after him, you're enabling the messiness to continue. If you say anything about it, then, first, you're opening up an opportunity for argument, and second, you're showing anger with which he and your father can laugh at.
You asked for advice on what to do. Well, the best thing to do in this case is nothing. They seem to take you for granted. By doing nothing, perhaps they'll realize how much they rely on you. And if they don't, you'll still eliminate the anger.
*MySmiley*
I play air tambourine. Competitively.
I play air tambourine. Competitively.
advice needed
13/10/2011 08:01:51 PM
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Well, the obvious connection ...
13/10/2011 08:27:39 PM
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Sell the platypus on EBay, dump the dead bus driver in a river and burn the overalls.
13/10/2011 08:27:55 PM
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Re: Sell the platypus on EBay, dump the dead bus driver in a river and burn the overalls.
13/10/2011 08:54:47 PM
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Speaking as the older brother who has the younger living with him....
13/10/2011 08:52:33 PM
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Don't lend him money, and if his crap is in the way, throw it onto the street or something.
13/10/2011 09:51:01 PM
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Don't lend him money. I don't see how the rest is any of your concern. *NM*
14/10/2011 06:53:25 PM
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its my concern because he is making me angry
15/10/2011 08:24:37 PM
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Re: angry
16/10/2011 05:33:09 PM
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