This is very difficult and scary for me. Really, it's a very reasonable fear. It's perfectly rational.
So: good news and bad news. Bad news: I failed my driving test yesterday. Good news: it's kind of incredible that I got so far as to take it. This is very difficult for me, I didn't think I could ever get behind the wheel of a metal monster such as a car and drive it in a borough of NYC among many other metal monsters, not to mention unarmored bicyclists and pedestrians. It's scary now- just thinking about it.
In retrospect, it probably did not help that on the way to my road test:
1. Someone tried to get into an accident with me- it was this car that was coming straight at me- it was like he was switching lanes but without signaling and doing 2 at a time, going perpendicular to the flow of traffic. [I think he started out perpendicular to the road and tried to join in but instead of turning into the closest line he went straight for the middle one] My instructor grabbed the wheel (and somehow he was aware that there was no one in the lane to the left of me?) and he swerved sharply to the left, avoiding the car that was intent on colliding with me.
I know if he wasn't there I wouldn't have been able to do anything but break. I would have been afraid to go left without first checking that there's no one there and it would have been too late. I console myself with the reminder that I wasn't going that fast and if that car did collide with me it would have been an accident but most likely nobody would have died.
2. Ok, we're still on the way to the road test location (and it's still my driving lesson). Later on this same road there's basically standstill traffic and it turns out that there was an accident. Was it the same person who tried to kill me? Could be, but I do not know. Then even later we make way for an ambulance that's heading away from the site of the accident.
If I was a superstitious person it would be veeeeery tempting to just take that as a sign that I just shouldn't drive. Then I get to the road test and after waiting for an hour for my chance I get to fail it- poor judgement in traffic.
So: good news and bad news. Bad news: I failed my driving test yesterday. Good news: it's kind of incredible that I got so far as to take it. This is very difficult for me, I didn't think I could ever get behind the wheel of a metal monster such as a car and drive it in a borough of NYC among many other metal monsters, not to mention unarmored bicyclists and pedestrians. It's scary now- just thinking about it.
In retrospect, it probably did not help that on the way to my road test:
1. Someone tried to get into an accident with me- it was this car that was coming straight at me- it was like he was switching lanes but without signaling and doing 2 at a time, going perpendicular to the flow of traffic. [I think he started out perpendicular to the road and tried to join in but instead of turning into the closest line he went straight for the middle one] My instructor grabbed the wheel (and somehow he was aware that there was no one in the lane to the left of me?) and he swerved sharply to the left, avoiding the car that was intent on colliding with me.
I know if he wasn't there I wouldn't have been able to do anything but break. I would have been afraid to go left without first checking that there's no one there and it would have been too late. I console myself with the reminder that I wasn't going that fast and if that car did collide with me it would have been an accident but most likely nobody would have died.
2. Ok, we're still on the way to the road test location (and it's still my driving lesson). Later on this same road there's basically standstill traffic and it turns out that there was an accident. Was it the same person who tried to kill me? Could be, but I do not know. Then even later we make way for an ambulance that's heading away from the site of the accident.
If I was a superstitious person it would be veeeeery tempting to just take that as a sign that I just shouldn't drive. Then I get to the road test and after waiting for an hour for my chance I get to fail it- poor judgement in traffic.
NSSP: Driving
- 13/12/2011 05:15:41 PM
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I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers.
- 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM
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- 13/12/2011 09:58:55 PM
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Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers.
- 13/12/2011 10:37:47 PM
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- 13/12/2011 10:50:38 PM
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*NM*
I failed my first test.
- 13/12/2011 05:49:58 PM
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I had to take the driving test 3 time before I passed (posted at the wrong place 
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- 13/12/2011 11:43:44 PM
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- 13/12/2011 11:43:44 PM
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13 yrs old.
- 13/12/2011 06:02:22 PM
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Seriously? Why? At 13 you should have had some awareness of the danger you were posing to others
- 13/12/2011 10:27:59 PM
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Re: Seriously? Why? At 13 you should have had some awareness of the danger you were posing to others
- 13/12/2011 10:37:41 PM
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Probably just a difference in perspective. Kids sneaking a vehicle for a jor ride is pretty common.
- 15/12/2011 03:51:30 AM
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It must be harder to overcome that natural fear in NYC.
- 13/12/2011 06:44:28 PM
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Isn't it traditional to fail your first test? Or is that just around here?
- 13/12/2011 08:14:01 PM
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I wouldn't think so
- 13/12/2011 08:25:36 PM
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It's rare to pass on the first try here. (according to driving instructor)
- 13/12/2011 09:44:39 PM
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I know Texas talked about doing away with it because the failure rate was so low
- 14/12/2011 03:15:11 AM
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I wonder how many people that have been driving for years and years would fail if they had to take
- 14/12/2011 12:03:55 AM
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Oh I think most people with years' worth of driving experience be fine.
- 14/12/2011 12:27:09 AM
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I was even rather nervous about taking lessons and failed my first
- 14/12/2011 08:30:25 AM
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I love driving.
- 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM
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Me, too.
- 18/12/2011 04:31:29 AM
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Re: Me, three.
- 18/12/2011 07:37:55 PM
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Did you ever attend a driving school? *NM*
- 14/12/2011 05:29:33 PM
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I don't think so.
- 15/12/2011 05:22:09 AM
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Yes, you did.
- 15/12/2011 04:44:48 PM
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That's not a sign.
- 14/12/2011 05:29:36 PM
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Whoa.
- 15/12/2011 07:21:52 AM
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Fewer cars on the road. Fewer double-parked cars. *NM*
- 15/12/2011 06:25:21 PM
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Also, you can tell when there's someone around the corner, because of the headlights.
- 19/12/2011 04:18:26 PM
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Oooh, that's a good point.
- 19/12/2011 05:17:16 PM
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It's more pronounced and important in the countryside where there are no streetlights.
- 19/12/2011 05:51:25 PM
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In the country there are deer
- 20/12/2011 05:53:17 AM
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Oh yeah, forgot about those. We don't have that many left, and only up in the Highlands. *NM*
- 20/12/2011 10:18:41 AM
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Driving tests are far harder in the Netherlands, from what I understand
- 14/12/2011 05:34:38 PM
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don't worry i fluffed my practical test up today
- 14/12/2011 08:24:56 PM
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I'm older than you 
and there's no way I would have willingly gotten behind the wheel at 17.
- 15/12/2011 05:12:29 AM
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and there's no way I would have willingly gotten behind the wheel at 17.
- 15/12/2011 05:12:29 AM
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I found driving nervewracking until I got to do it by myself. NZ has a great system, IMO.
- 15/12/2011 01:48:19 PM
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Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks.
- 17/12/2011 05:50:16 PM
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- 17/12/2011 05:50:16 PM
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Re: Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks.
- 17/12/2011 06:07:51 PM
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- 17/12/2011 06:07:51 PM
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No. But it is true that my risk aversion coefficient is too high.
- 17/12/2011 06:49:33 PM
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Isn't learning to drive in NYC sort of like
- 18/12/2011 04:21:47 AM
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Don't worry about it it. I'm sure you'll get over it eventually.
- 18/12/2011 09:58:59 AM
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