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I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM
But instead I will empathise, because I also was afraid of driving. It was so bad that I had to leave my house hours earlier than I needed to, because otherwise I'd scare myself sick and wouldn't be able to go places.

The trick is to just totally immerse yourself in the fear until it goes away. Anxiety and phobia experts call that "flooding." It's what you use in exposure therapy. Essentially, you'll exhaust yourself being scared, and then you will realize that you aren't actually scared any more. Of course, you'll be miserable while you do it, but them's the breaks.


Anxiety disorders are fun, yeah?
"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
~Camilla

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NSSP: Driving Vivien - 13/12/2011 05:15:41 PM 1640 Views
I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Ghavrel - 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM 1138 Views
Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Vivien - 13/12/2011 09:58:55 PM 1070 Views
Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Ghavrel - 13/12/2011 10:37:47 PM 1060 Views
Re: I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:50:38 PM 1148 Views
Your first instinct was right, trust your instincts. *NM* random thoughts - 14/12/2011 03:16:51 AM 462 Views
I failed my first test. Nate - 13/12/2011 05:49:58 PM 1258 Views
I would love to drive on empty country roads. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:08:35 PM 1052 Views
I had to take the driving test 3 time before I passed (posted at the wrong place ) Linda - 13/12/2011 11:43:44 PM 1188 Views
Congratulations on passing it! Vivien - 14/12/2011 12:18:18 AM 1044 Views
13 yrs old. FalonDeathwatchGuard - 13/12/2011 06:02:22 PM 1273 Views
Seriously? Why? At 13 you should have had some awareness of the danger you were posing to others Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:27:59 PM 1169 Views
Re: Seriously? Why? At 13 you should have had some awareness of the danger you were posing to others FalonDeathwatchGuard - 13/12/2011 10:37:41 PM 1011 Views
Probably just a difference in perspective. Kids sneaking a vehicle for a jor ride is pretty common. everynametaken - 15/12/2011 03:51:30 AM 1152 Views
Yeah it is! vroom vroom vroom!! FalonDeathwatchGuard - 15/12/2011 03:26:28 PM 1187 Views
I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. Macharius - 13/12/2011 06:28:26 PM 1271 Views
Re: I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:29:20 PM 1156 Views
It must be harder to overcome that natural fear in NYC. Sareitha Sedai - 13/12/2011 06:44:28 PM 1122 Views
Yeah, absolutely. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:32:25 PM 1238 Views
Or drive your drunk sister home from a party. *NM* Aeryn - 14/12/2011 05:27:01 PM 553 Views
Driving IS overrated. Jacob - 13/12/2011 07:01:02 PM 1107 Views
Re: Driving IS overrated. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:43:09 PM 951 Views
Isn't it traditional to fail your first test? Or is that just around here? Legolas - 13/12/2011 08:14:01 PM 1113 Views
I wouldn't think so Dark Knight - 13/12/2011 08:25:36 PM 1000 Views
I'm not in any state. Legolas - 13/12/2011 08:31:30 PM 1061 Views
Re: I'm not in any state. Vivien - 13/12/2011 10:56:38 PM 1030 Views
It's rare to pass on the first try here. (according to driving instructor) Vivien - 13/12/2011 09:44:39 PM 1182 Views
I think it depends on where you live Isaac - 13/12/2011 09:11:13 PM 1009 Views
Re: I think it depends on where you live Vivien - 13/12/2011 09:34:30 PM 1202 Views
I know Texas talked about doing away with it because the failure rate was so low random thoughts - 14/12/2011 03:15:11 AM 1079 Views
When I was in New Jersey... rebelaessedai - 13/12/2011 11:30:59 PM 1089 Views
Maybe they're the ones who couldn't hack driving in NYC? *NM* Vivien - 14/12/2011 12:21:09 AM 585 Views
I wonder how many people that have been driving for years and years would fail if they had to take Tashmere - 14/12/2011 12:03:55 AM 1142 Views
Oh I think most people with years' worth of driving experience be fine. Vivien - 14/12/2011 12:27:09 AM 1270 Views
I was even rather nervous about taking lessons and failed my first ironclad - 14/12/2011 08:30:25 AM 1225 Views
I love driving. Avendesora - 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM 1147 Views
Re: I love driving. Macharius - 14/12/2011 05:44:57 PM 993 Views
Avendesora - 14/12/2011 06:02:42 PM 1269 Views
I thought it quite clever, actually. Macharius - 14/12/2011 06:54:27 PM 949 Views
Me, too. aerocontrols - 18/12/2011 04:31:29 AM 1051 Views
Drive safely! Avendesora - 18/12/2011 04:58:01 AM 1147 Views
Re: Me, three. Palatine - 18/12/2011 07:37:55 PM 1113 Views
Re: Me, three. aerocontrols - 19/12/2011 06:10:20 AM 988 Views
Welcome home. *NM* Palatine - 19/12/2011 04:41:26 PM 499 Views
Did you ever attend a driving school? *NM* Palatine - 14/12/2011 05:29:33 PM 503 Views
I don't think so. Vivien - 15/12/2011 05:22:09 AM 1165 Views
Oh. ironclad - 15/12/2011 08:32:59 AM 1222 Views
Yes, you did. Palatine - 15/12/2011 04:44:48 PM 1068 Views
Re: Yes, you did. Vivien - 16/12/2011 12:25:30 AM 1085 Views
Re: Yes, you did. Palatine - 16/12/2011 04:42:40 PM 1259 Views
That's not a sign. Aeryn - 14/12/2011 05:29:36 PM 1115 Views
I take exception to this. Stephen - 14/12/2011 06:29:40 PM 1062 Views
Whoa. rebelaessedai - 15/12/2011 07:21:52 AM 1149 Views
Fewer cars on the road. Fewer double-parked cars. *NM* Aeryn - 15/12/2011 06:25:21 PM 438 Views
Also: you have no fear. *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:59:34 PM 553 Views
LOL! You guys are funny. rebelaessedai - 17/12/2011 06:52:22 AM 1129 Views
Also, you can tell when there's someone around the corner, because of the headlights. Tim - 19/12/2011 04:18:26 PM 1098 Views
Oooh, that's a good point. Vivien - 19/12/2011 05:17:16 PM 1224 Views
It's more pronounced and important in the countryside where there are no streetlights. Tim - 19/12/2011 05:51:25 PM 1209 Views
In the country there are deer aerocontrols - 20/12/2011 05:53:17 AM 1087 Views
Oh yeah, forgot about those. We don't have that many left, and only up in the Highlands. *NM* Tim - 20/12/2011 10:18:41 AM 622 Views
Driving tests are far harder in the Netherlands, from what I understand Helene - 14/12/2011 05:34:38 PM 1027 Views
For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. Tom - 14/12/2011 06:43:38 PM 944 Views
Re: For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. Macharius - 14/12/2011 07:05:20 PM 1011 Views
don't worry i fluffed my practical test up today Yunalesca - 14/12/2011 08:24:56 PM 1130 Views
I'm older than you and there's no way I would have willingly gotten behind the wheel at 17. Vivien - 15/12/2011 05:12:29 AM 1046 Views
I found driving nervewracking until I got to do it by myself. NZ has a great system, IMO. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 01:48:19 PM 973 Views
It's really not that bad Praziquantel - 16/12/2011 01:03:43 AM 1107 Views
Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. Vivien - 17/12/2011 05:50:16 PM 1145 Views
That last part: just a joke. Vivien - 17/12/2011 06:06:43 PM 1153 Views
Re: Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. TaskmasterJack - 17/12/2011 06:07:51 PM 1175 Views
No. But it is true that my risk aversion coefficient is too high. Vivien - 17/12/2011 06:49:33 PM 958 Views
Isn't learning to drive in NYC sort of like aerocontrols - 18/12/2011 04:21:47 AM 1070 Views
Finally! The right word. Vivien - 19/12/2011 02:19:53 AM 1002 Views
Re: Finally! The right word. TaskmasterJack - 19/12/2011 02:51:51 AM 946 Views
No problem. aerocontrols - 19/12/2011 06:36:59 AM 1387 Views
Don't worry about it it. I'm sure you'll get over it eventually. Bergioyn - 18/12/2011 09:58:59 AM 1095 Views
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