but I often go through a similar thing. I've tried to come to terms with just having a finicky libido. Frankly I think availability does ruin my desire a little bit, as I'm unbelievably turned on by the excitement of getting to know someone intimately, but fall easy victim to routine, apparently. I'm certain this went a long way toward ruining my last serious relationship, but it's pretty hard to make yourself interested in sex if it isn't there. At times it seemed there was just a roadblock to initiation -- once I'd get going the enthusiasm was there.
Well, anyway, I'm sure that's no help, but I really don't think it's a very uncommon way to feel. It's just weird to be a guy and have these vacillations, when men are sometimes made to look like they're ready to fuck a hole in the wall, any time. I have those moods, too, but they are, to a considerable extent, bound up in the greater play of feelings that arise in the course of getting to know someone more than just superficially.
Well, anyway, I'm sure that's no help, but I really don't think it's a very uncommon way to feel. It's just weird to be a guy and have these vacillations, when men are sometimes made to look like they're ready to fuck a hole in the wall, any time. I have those moods, too, but they are, to a considerable extent, bound up in the greater play of feelings that arise in the course of getting to know someone more than just superficially.
Sex. Why don't I love it?
09/03/2012 09:31:05 PM
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Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it?
10/03/2012 01:12:41 AM
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Re: Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it?
10/03/2012 08:33:12 AM
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I really don't think a semi-anonymous internet group is going to be able to answer that.
10/03/2012 02:19:56 AM
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Maybe not much of a consolation,
10/03/2012 08:07:09 PM
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