Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it?
Dan Send a noteboard - 10/03/2012 01:12:41 AM
If so, what were the circumstances around it? Not gritty details, naturally, but like: "met at a bar, were totally into each other, I knew I had to be on a train tomorrow so naturally.... etc."
If nothing like that describe the circumstances of your best experience?
Also describe the circumstances of one your more prominent fantasies. Again, no need for positions, just place/time/person etc.
If nothing like that describe the circumstances of your best experience?
Also describe the circumstances of one your more prominent fantasies. Again, no need for positions, just place/time/person etc.
This is the same question I ask myself every time I have sex with someone. I enjoy the feelings, I have reason to believe I'm good at sex, I most definitely am not prudish (gay sex can be messy), etc. And yet I can never totally immerse myself in the experience. Today I was having fun with the guy I'm dating. I ended it by saying I want to watch the news. I just didn't feel like continuing. I apologised but yeah, he was pretty quiet after that. There's nothing wrong with him, he's good-looking and intelligent. I have a crush on him. So why the f**k is my urge to ravish him so .. low? Am I just naturally frigid? That's a terrible thought. I really, really hate the idea of being asexual. You think it was easy coming to terms with being gay? Try to cope with something like that.
Sex. Why don't I love it?
- 09/03/2012 09:31:05 PM
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Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it?
- 10/03/2012 01:12:41 AM
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Re: Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it?
- 10/03/2012 08:33:12 AM
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I really don't think a semi-anonymous internet group is going to be able to answer that.
- 10/03/2012 02:19:56 AM
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