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This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). Aemon Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM
Typical social restraints just don't exist online, for most people. People will loudly mock viewpoints counter to their own using all sorts of insults, and these comments are broadcast to every friend they have. I can't even imagine one of my friends standing up in the middle of a party, and announcing to the room how disgusting they found "social_group_x" or how criminally insane are members of "political_group_y." And yet they regularly do exactly that online.

When you talk to someone in person, you're careful about what you say. You don't lie or hide your opinions, but you try to couch things in friendly terms, avoid causing offense, etc. For whatever reason, people are just unable to translate those niceties to the online space. Consequently, my friends list is very small, I've hidden lots of people from my wall, and I virtually never post anything myself.

RAFOnauts: be careful with your online opinions. You're annoying/offending a lot of people who like you enough not to start a fight.
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1247 Views
A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 12:00:19 PM 859 Views
Re: A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 05:07:04 PM 827 Views
The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 12:36:22 PM 935 Views
I laughed at your post - 13/06/2012 05:03:18 PM 661 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:34:42 PM 778 Views
*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 390 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:57:11 PM 721 Views
You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 706 Views
Same here - 14/06/2012 12:24:46 AM 767 Views
A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:13:27 AM 726 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:32:15 AM 668 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 04:14:20 PM 780 Views
What were his stats again? - 14/06/2012 08:38:40 PM 747 Views
Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 779 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 887 Views
Facebook is about the casual insulting of opposed political, religious and social viewpoints. - 13/06/2012 07:22:57 PM 770 Views
Apparently. - 13/06/2012 08:13:38 PM 833 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 07:50:53 PM 791 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:10:32 PM 802 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:46:45 PM 798 Views
Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 801 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 760 Views
This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM 844 Views
Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 747 Views
Re: Yes. - 13/06/2012 07:10:50 PM 686 Views
Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 725 Views
We have two options, as I see it: 1) Wear big boy pants; 2) Hide lots of posts. - 13/06/2012 04:02:07 PM 1047 Views
Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 785 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 791 Views
I'm lucky that I pretty much never see anything on Facebook that really annoys me - 13/06/2012 04:23:43 PM 749 Views
I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 749 Views
Yes - 13/06/2012 05:40:35 PM 755 Views
Good. - 13/06/2012 07:49:13 PM 980 Views
I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 746 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 823 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 776 Views
Same. And re: the backlash: there'd almost have to be, wouldn't there? - 13/06/2012 10:18:57 PM 840 Views
Well yes, that was me rather stating the obvious - 13/06/2012 10:56:12 PM 836 Views
An AZ cop posted a FB pic of him with kids, a gun and a bullet riddled shirt with Obamas face on it. - 13/06/2012 11:40:38 PM 890 Views
I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 747 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 677 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 313 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 789 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 753 Views
I will de-friend the people who annoy me. - 14/06/2012 01:23:32 AM 691 Views
Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 297 Views
Luckily I haven't got many of these. - 14/06/2012 11:05:43 AM 740 Views
I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 803 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 673 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 746 Views

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