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This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). Aemon Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM
Typical social restraints just don't exist online, for most people. People will loudly mock viewpoints counter to their own using all sorts of insults, and these comments are broadcast to every friend they have. I can't even imagine one of my friends standing up in the middle of a party, and announcing to the room how disgusting they found "social_group_x" or how criminally insane are members of "political_group_y." And yet they regularly do exactly that online.

When you talk to someone in person, you're careful about what you say. You don't lie or hide your opinions, but you try to couch things in friendly terms, avoid causing offense, etc. For whatever reason, people are just unable to translate those niceties to the online space. Consequently, my friends list is very small, I've hidden lots of people from my wall, and I virtually never post anything myself.

RAFOnauts: be careful with your online opinions. You're annoying/offending a lot of people who like you enough not to start a fight.
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1249 Views
A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 12:00:19 PM 861 Views
Re: A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 05:07:04 PM 830 Views
The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 12:36:22 PM 938 Views
I laughed at your post - 13/06/2012 05:03:18 PM 664 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:34:42 PM 781 Views
*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 391 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:57:11 PM 722 Views
You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 711 Views
Same here - 14/06/2012 12:24:46 AM 768 Views
A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:13:27 AM 729 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:32:15 AM 671 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 04:14:20 PM 782 Views
What were his stats again? - 14/06/2012 08:38:40 PM 749 Views
Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 781 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 893 Views
Facebook is about the casual insulting of opposed political, religious and social viewpoints. - 13/06/2012 07:22:57 PM 772 Views
Apparently. - 13/06/2012 08:13:38 PM 836 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 07:50:53 PM 793 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:10:32 PM 805 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:46:45 PM 801 Views
Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 803 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 762 Views
This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM 846 Views
Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 750 Views
Re: Yes. - 13/06/2012 07:10:50 PM 689 Views
Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 728 Views
We have two options, as I see it: 1) Wear big boy pants; 2) Hide lots of posts. - 13/06/2012 04:02:07 PM 1049 Views
Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 788 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 794 Views
I'm lucky that I pretty much never see anything on Facebook that really annoys me - 13/06/2012 04:23:43 PM 752 Views
I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 751 Views
Yes - 13/06/2012 05:40:35 PM 757 Views
Good. - 13/06/2012 07:49:13 PM 982 Views
I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 748 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 826 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 779 Views
Same. And re: the backlash: there'd almost have to be, wouldn't there? - 13/06/2012 10:18:57 PM 841 Views
Well yes, that was me rather stating the obvious - 13/06/2012 10:56:12 PM 837 Views
An AZ cop posted a FB pic of him with kids, a gun and a bullet riddled shirt with Obamas face on it. - 13/06/2012 11:40:38 PM 893 Views
I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 749 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 679 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 314 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 792 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 755 Views
I will de-friend the people who annoy me. - 14/06/2012 01:23:32 AM 693 Views
Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 297 Views
Luckily I haven't got many of these. - 14/06/2012 11:05:43 AM 742 Views
I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 809 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 676 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 749 Views

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