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Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM
Typical social restraints just don't exist online, for most people. People will loudly mock viewpoints counter to their own using all sorts of insults, and these comments are broadcast to every friend they have. I can't even imagine one of my friends standing up in the middle of a party, and announcing to the room how disgusting they found "social_group_x" or how criminally insane are members of "political_group_y." And yet they regularly do exactly that online.

When you talk to someone in person, you're careful about what you say. You don't lie or hide your opinions, but you try to couch things in friendly terms, avoid causing offense, etc. For whatever reason, people are just unable to translate those niceties to the online space. Consequently, my friends list is very small, I've hidden lots of people from my wall, and I virtually never post anything myself.

RAFOnauts: be careful with your online opinions. You're annoying/offending a lot of people who like you enough not to start a fight.

Mainly because consciousness of that last possibility encouraged taking pains to be firm but non-confrontational. Somewhere along the line, I just lost patience, and most self-restraint, and have been unable to recover either. It sucks. :[
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1188 Views
A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 12:00:19 PM 789 Views
Re: A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 05:07:04 PM 767 Views
The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 12:36:22 PM 883 Views
I laughed at your post - 13/06/2012 05:03:18 PM 606 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:34:42 PM 722 Views
*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 369 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:57:11 PM 663 Views
You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 657 Views
Same here - 14/06/2012 12:24:46 AM 700 Views
A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:13:27 AM 662 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:32:15 AM 603 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 04:14:20 PM 712 Views
What were his stats again? - 14/06/2012 08:38:40 PM 689 Views
Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 724 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 838 Views
Facebook is about the casual insulting of opposed political, religious and social viewpoints. - 13/06/2012 07:22:57 PM 712 Views
Apparently. - 13/06/2012 08:13:38 PM 780 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 07:50:53 PM 732 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:10:32 PM 749 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:46:45 PM 754 Views
Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 740 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 706 Views
This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM 783 Views
Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 700 Views
Re: Yes. - 13/06/2012 07:10:50 PM 634 Views
Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 651 Views
We have two options, as I see it: 1) Wear big boy pants; 2) Hide lots of posts. - 13/06/2012 04:02:07 PM 988 Views
Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 730 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 743 Views
I'm lucky that I pretty much never see anything on Facebook that really annoys me - 13/06/2012 04:23:43 PM 693 Views
I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 697 Views
Yes - 13/06/2012 05:40:35 PM 704 Views
Good. - 13/06/2012 07:49:13 PM 935 Views
I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 690 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 764 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 723 Views
Same. And re: the backlash: there'd almost have to be, wouldn't there? - 13/06/2012 10:18:57 PM 783 Views
Well yes, that was me rather stating the obvious - 13/06/2012 10:56:12 PM 787 Views
An AZ cop posted a FB pic of him with kids, a gun and a bullet riddled shirt with Obamas face on it. - 13/06/2012 11:40:38 PM 829 Views
I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 696 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 618 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 294 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 729 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 697 Views
I will de-friend the people who annoy me. - 14/06/2012 01:23:32 AM 629 Views
Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 275 Views
Luckily I haven't got many of these. - 14/06/2012 11:05:43 AM 689 Views
I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 751 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 622 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 683 Views

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