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Shouldn't the manner of getting hammered factor in ? AgentApple Send a noteboard - 03/03/2015 05:31:48 PM

I recall this party... where I met a girl who kept drinking when she was quite drunk already. Her sober female friend kept bringing her more and more drinks and it was obviously pre-planned when they were both sober.
It was quite obvious what she wanted from me, but I was put off by her drunkedness. When I suggested she slow down she got pissed and left me.
I later saw her going out with some guy.
So, but this logic, was that guy a rapist ? Was I a potential rapist ?
I guess this girl has some mental block stopping her from enjoying a night of care free sex with random guy X.
So if getting hammered in order to lose control, was the plan when she was sober, then it was a sober decision or a drunk decision ?
Or perhaps it is legally impossible to decide to lose control ?

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Drunk Sex - 03/03/2015 03:32:30 PM 1480 Views
Shouldn't the manner of getting hammered factor in ? - 03/03/2015 05:31:48 PM 1045 Views
It's worth reading the BBC and Telegraph articles your article links to. - 03/03/2015 06:23:32 PM 1157 Views
I am more interested in the trend in general and not this specific law - 03/03/2015 07:10:20 PM 975 Views
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[citation needed] - 04/03/2015 10:13:38 PM 780 Views
They'd better enforce it equally *NM* - 03/03/2015 06:28:38 PM 392 Views
Just like hate crime is enforced equally? *NM* - 03/03/2015 07:10:45 PM 386 Views
Exactly. I don't have high hopes *NM* - 03/03/2015 09:10:40 PM 489 Views
it's pretty simple actually: don't take advantage of someone who isn't in their right state of mind - 03/03/2015 11:21:54 PM 755 Views
But they are making it complicated - 04/03/2015 12:12:27 AM 799 Views
no, it's actually turning the burden of proof onto the accused as it should be - 04/03/2015 10:09:59 PM 969 Views
Re: no, it's actually turning the burden of proof onto the accused as it should be - 04/03/2015 11:29:00 PM 848 Views
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who are you to decide what is rape and what is not? - 04/03/2015 09:55:35 PM 873 Views
The only rational one the in this conversation by all appearances. - 05/03/2015 02:39:56 AM 828 Views
So you're guilty until proven innocent?? - 06/03/2015 01:52:47 AM 1143 Views
They get around all that proof stuff by keeping it out of the courts - 09/03/2015 04:34:21 PM 812 Views
And that shit is happening ALL THE TIME. - 09/03/2015 04:57:53 PM 862 Views
i think you may be pushing your personal bias on the author. - 06/03/2015 06:42:15 PM 1048 Views

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