Yeah, I presonally don't care much about the "stuff." My lawyer said that one thing I can do is have him make out a list of stuff he wants to take when he goes and then I can look it over and approve it. Chances are likely that I'll approve of whatever he puts down. As for the kids, they already spend most of their time with me. He works evenings and weekends, so they don't see him all that much anyway. I think this will go pretty smoothly really. He can't really fight much of any of it. We don't even own a house together. We live in a house owned by my parents.