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I know! I'm a dork! Lupine Send a noteboard - 09/11/2009 02:13:10 PM
I'd say it's easier to go to an LGBT bar by yourself than a normal bar, cause in an LGBT bar people will just assume you're not out to friends/family yet. To find one, use the internet, that's the safest bet. Most of the girls I've seen in gay bars in Bournemouth don't get dressed up but gay girls in Bournemouth are crap. Once there, just find a nice seat that's not too exposed or too in the corner.

Have fun :)


TMJ got me started on this line of thought by posting a picture with Amber Benson, and then I just forgot to switch boards... eek.

Surprisingly, it doesn't seem like there's really a designated gay bar here. Okay, one, but according to the reviews, it's a little seedy. Maybe just because it's a pretty enlightened area and you can be gay anywhere? Perhaps Greg will weigh in.

Anyway, er, how does one avoid being a crap gay girl? :P
I'm somewhere in between lipstick and butch, I guess... wait, you met me, I don't have to describe myself, haha.
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Need social advice. Is it... you know... allowed to go to a bar by yourself? Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:57:51 AM 1059 Views
Eek! I'm sorry I'm sorry! Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:58:21 AM 622 Views
Of course it is! Brian - 09/11/2009 04:06:22 AM 556 Views
For girls too? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:22:09 PM 520 Views
Yeah Brian - 09/11/2009 04:30:27 PM 582 Views
If all you want is some place to have a good beer, then don't go to a LGBT bar. MightyYT - 09/11/2009 05:11:08 AM 527 Views
I think I can overcome the urge to dance, as long as it won't make me a pariah. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:20:46 PM 469 Views
Dude, this has nothing to do with TV Monkey - 09/11/2009 07:43:33 AM 623 Views
I know! I'm a dork! Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:13:10 PM 671 Views
It's hard, and I admire anyone who can pull it off. AgentOrange - 09/11/2009 10:21:43 AM 553 Views
Same here ironclad - 09/11/2009 11:36:30 AM 490 Views
Hm. I'm used to feeling socially awkward already, though. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:07:45 PM 597 Views
Bring a book? *NM* Camilla - 09/11/2009 11:01:54 AM 330 Views
... but which book? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:09:29 PM 452 Views
If you take a book.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:12:13 PM 553 Views
To a gay bar in the midwest? Hehe. cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:29:07 PM 592 Views
lol, oh dear. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:43:41 PM 594 Views
Re: Twelve at a time! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/11/2009 04:04:41 AM 206 Views
Of course it is. Elaine - 09/11/2009 12:40:06 PM 553 Views
Thank you, that's good advice. *NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:08:16 PM 220 Views
I've been to straight bars, and gay bars.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:11:40 PM 705 Views
Thank you, Amy, that really helps. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:16:33 PM 591 Views
You could ask 'teh gay' that you know that lives in the same city as you do. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:16:12 PM 520 Views
I was being passive. Hoping you would see this and respond. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:18:59 PM 485 Views
No, I'll reply in full/send noteboard. We can arrange something so you don't go alone. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:22:44 PM 501 Views
*NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:34:37 PM 267 Views
<3 @my - 10/11/2009 02:26:04 AM 607 Views
It is nice of him, isn't it? *NM* Lupine - 10/11/2009 02:57:00 AM 282 Views
Exceptionally so. @my - 10/11/2009 03:00:43 AM 533 Views
Get a buzz going before you go there? cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:25:30 PM 445 Views
Yes, it's allowed. Aeryn - 09/11/2009 02:43:18 PM 661 Views
This is why I love the USA ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:28:52 PM 498 Views
"i just turned 21, it's my first time in a bar" sounds like the wrong thing to say somehow... moondog - 09/11/2009 04:17:12 PM 602 Views
It would certainly break the ice. *NM* Aeryn - 09/11/2009 08:45:29 PM 216 Views
Don't get a buzz going before you go there! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:08:26 PM 540 Views
Dude, she's 21! Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:14:44 PM 456 Views
I know! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:18:52 PM 545 Views
That's what I'm depending on other people doing. cabbage - 11/11/2009 12:09:42 AM 435 Views
Absolutely go to a bar by yoursefl. Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:16:38 PM 452 Views
Well I can't give any advice on gay bars random thoughts - 09/11/2009 04:12:26 PM 519 Views
go at happy hour moondog - 09/11/2009 04:16:25 PM 613 Views
Funniest title ever. nossy - 09/11/2009 04:54:46 PM 541 Views
It's perfectly fine and normal Stephen - 09/11/2009 10:12:23 PM 533 Views
Hah! Glad I could be of service Mat Maniac - 10/11/2009 05:24:34 AM 466 Views
The main thing is relax Mark - 10/11/2009 05:40:28 PM 621 Views
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