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Well I can't give any advice on gay bars random thoughts Send a noteboard - 09/11/2009 04:12:26 PM
I have only been to one and that was just to see what it was the base off limits list.

As far straight bars go there are all types. If you want to relax and meet people stay away form the meat market dance clubs and look for a small sports bars/pub. Usually there are people playing darts and pool and just generally relaxing. Go up and ask to play a game, it doesn't matter if you are any good. The vast majority of people are there for the same reason you are, meet people and have a good time.

I would suggest going a least little early and keep in mind a girl going into a strange bar alone has to keep her security in mind so trust your instincts and stay safe.

By the way do they actually have gay/lesbian bars? I would have guessed that one or the other would be more typical.
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Need social advice. Is it... you know... allowed to go to a bar by yourself? Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:57:51 AM 1139 Views
Eek! I'm sorry I'm sorry! Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:58:21 AM 710 Views
Of course it is! Brian - 09/11/2009 04:06:22 AM 634 Views
For girls too? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:22:09 PM 599 Views
Yeah Brian - 09/11/2009 04:30:27 PM 666 Views
If all you want is some place to have a good beer, then don't go to a LGBT bar. MightyYT - 09/11/2009 05:11:08 AM 615 Views
I think I can overcome the urge to dance, as long as it won't make me a pariah. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:20:46 PM 544 Views
Dude, this has nothing to do with TV Monkey - 09/11/2009 07:43:33 AM 702 Views
I know! I'm a dork! Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:13:10 PM 754 Views
It's hard, and I admire anyone who can pull it off. AgentOrange - 09/11/2009 10:21:43 AM 631 Views
Same here ironclad - 09/11/2009 11:36:30 AM 566 Views
Hm. I'm used to feeling socially awkward already, though. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:07:45 PM 668 Views
Bring a book? *NM* Camilla - 09/11/2009 11:01:54 AM 361 Views
... but which book? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:09:29 PM 534 Views
If you take a book.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:12:13 PM 633 Views
To a gay bar in the midwest? Hehe. cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:29:07 PM 687 Views
lol, oh dear. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:43:41 PM 677 Views
Re: Twelve at a time! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/11/2009 04:04:41 AM 241 Views
Of course it is. Elaine - 09/11/2009 12:40:06 PM 639 Views
Thank you, that's good advice. *NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:08:16 PM 254 Views
I've been to straight bars, and gay bars.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:11:40 PM 790 Views
Thank you, Amy, that really helps. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:16:33 PM 678 Views
You could ask 'teh gay' that you know that lives in the same city as you do. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:16:12 PM 592 Views
I was being passive. Hoping you would see this and respond. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:18:59 PM 571 Views
No, I'll reply in full/send noteboard. We can arrange something so you don't go alone. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:22:44 PM 583 Views
*NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:34:37 PM 298 Views
<3 @my - 10/11/2009 02:26:04 AM 684 Views
It is nice of him, isn't it? *NM* Lupine - 10/11/2009 02:57:00 AM 314 Views
Exceptionally so. @my - 10/11/2009 03:00:43 AM 606 Views
Get a buzz going before you go there? cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:25:30 PM 539 Views
Yes, it's allowed. Aeryn - 09/11/2009 02:43:18 PM 762 Views
This is why I love the USA ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:28:52 PM 596 Views
"i just turned 21, it's my first time in a bar" sounds like the wrong thing to say somehow... moondog - 09/11/2009 04:17:12 PM 699 Views
It would certainly break the ice. *NM* Aeryn - 09/11/2009 08:45:29 PM 250 Views
Don't get a buzz going before you go there! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:08:26 PM 621 Views
Dude, she's 21! Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:14:44 PM 540 Views
I know! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:18:52 PM 630 Views
That's what I'm depending on other people doing. cabbage - 11/11/2009 12:09:42 AM 518 Views
Absolutely go to a bar by yoursefl. Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:16:38 PM 524 Views
Well I can't give any advice on gay bars random thoughts - 09/11/2009 04:12:26 PM 601 Views
go at happy hour moondog - 09/11/2009 04:16:25 PM 696 Views
Funniest title ever. nossy - 09/11/2009 04:54:46 PM 626 Views
It's perfectly fine and normal Stephen - 09/11/2009 10:12:23 PM 635 Views
Hah! Glad I could be of service Mat Maniac - 10/11/2009 05:24:34 AM 555 Views
The main thing is relax Mark - 10/11/2009 05:40:28 PM 723 Views
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