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I know! I'm a dork! Lupine Send a noteboard - 09/11/2009 02:13:10 PM
I'd say it's easier to go to an LGBT bar by yourself than a normal bar, cause in an LGBT bar people will just assume you're not out to friends/family yet. To find one, use the internet, that's the safest bet. Most of the girls I've seen in gay bars in Bournemouth don't get dressed up but gay girls in Bournemouth are crap. Once there, just find a nice seat that's not too exposed or too in the corner.

Have fun :)


TMJ got me started on this line of thought by posting a picture with Amber Benson, and then I just forgot to switch boards... eek.

Surprisingly, it doesn't seem like there's really a designated gay bar here. Okay, one, but according to the reviews, it's a little seedy. Maybe just because it's a pretty enlightened area and you can be gay anywhere? Perhaps Greg will weigh in.

Anyway, er, how does one avoid being a crap gay girl? :P
I'm somewhere in between lipstick and butch, I guess... wait, you met me, I don't have to describe myself, haha.
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Need social advice. Is it... you know... allowed to go to a bar by yourself? Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:57:51 AM 1139 Views
Eek! I'm sorry I'm sorry! Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:58:21 AM 709 Views
Of course it is! Brian - 09/11/2009 04:06:22 AM 634 Views
For girls too? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:22:09 PM 599 Views
Yeah Brian - 09/11/2009 04:30:27 PM 666 Views
If all you want is some place to have a good beer, then don't go to a LGBT bar. MightyYT - 09/11/2009 05:11:08 AM 614 Views
I think I can overcome the urge to dance, as long as it won't make me a pariah. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:20:46 PM 543 Views
Dude, this has nothing to do with TV Monkey - 09/11/2009 07:43:33 AM 702 Views
I know! I'm a dork! Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:13:10 PM 754 Views
It's hard, and I admire anyone who can pull it off. AgentOrange - 09/11/2009 10:21:43 AM 631 Views
Same here ironclad - 09/11/2009 11:36:30 AM 566 Views
Hm. I'm used to feeling socially awkward already, though. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:07:45 PM 667 Views
Bring a book? *NM* Camilla - 09/11/2009 11:01:54 AM 360 Views
... but which book? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:09:29 PM 533 Views
If you take a book.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:12:13 PM 633 Views
To a gay bar in the midwest? Hehe. cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:29:07 PM 686 Views
lol, oh dear. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:43:41 PM 677 Views
Re: Twelve at a time! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/11/2009 04:04:41 AM 240 Views
Of course it is. Elaine - 09/11/2009 12:40:06 PM 639 Views
Thank you, that's good advice. *NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:08:16 PM 253 Views
I've been to straight bars, and gay bars.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:11:40 PM 789 Views
Thank you, Amy, that really helps. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:16:33 PM 677 Views
You could ask 'teh gay' that you know that lives in the same city as you do. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:16:12 PM 592 Views
I was being passive. Hoping you would see this and respond. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:18:59 PM 570 Views
No, I'll reply in full/send noteboard. We can arrange something so you don't go alone. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:22:44 PM 581 Views
*NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:34:37 PM 298 Views
<3 @my - 10/11/2009 02:26:04 AM 684 Views
It is nice of him, isn't it? *NM* Lupine - 10/11/2009 02:57:00 AM 313 Views
Exceptionally so. @my - 10/11/2009 03:00:43 AM 606 Views
Get a buzz going before you go there? cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:25:30 PM 538 Views
Yes, it's allowed. Aeryn - 09/11/2009 02:43:18 PM 762 Views
This is why I love the USA ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:28:52 PM 595 Views
"i just turned 21, it's my first time in a bar" sounds like the wrong thing to say somehow... moondog - 09/11/2009 04:17:12 PM 698 Views
It would certainly break the ice. *NM* Aeryn - 09/11/2009 08:45:29 PM 250 Views
Don't get a buzz going before you go there! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:08:26 PM 619 Views
Dude, she's 21! Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:14:44 PM 539 Views
I know! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:18:52 PM 630 Views
That's what I'm depending on other people doing. cabbage - 11/11/2009 12:09:42 AM 518 Views
Absolutely go to a bar by yoursefl. Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:16:38 PM 523 Views
Well I can't give any advice on gay bars random thoughts - 09/11/2009 04:12:26 PM 600 Views
go at happy hour moondog - 09/11/2009 04:16:25 PM 696 Views
Funniest title ever. nossy - 09/11/2009 04:54:46 PM 625 Views
It's perfectly fine and normal Stephen - 09/11/2009 10:12:23 PM 634 Views
Hah! Glad I could be of service Mat Maniac - 10/11/2009 05:24:34 AM 553 Views
The main thing is relax Mark - 10/11/2009 05:40:28 PM 722 Views
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