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Well I can't give any advice on gay bars random thoughts Send a noteboard - 09/11/2009 04:12:26 PM
I have only been to one and that was just to see what it was the base off limits list.

As far straight bars go there are all types. If you want to relax and meet people stay away form the meat market dance clubs and look for a small sports bars/pub. Usually there are people playing darts and pool and just generally relaxing. Go up and ask to play a game, it doesn't matter if you are any good. The vast majority of people are there for the same reason you are, meet people and have a good time.

I would suggest going a least little early and keep in mind a girl going into a strange bar alone has to keep her security in mind so trust your instincts and stay safe.

By the way do they actually have gay/lesbian bars? I would have guessed that one or the other would be more typical.
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Need social advice. Is it... you know... allowed to go to a bar by yourself? Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:57:51 AM 1081 Views
Eek! I'm sorry I'm sorry! Lupine - 09/11/2009 03:58:21 AM 647 Views
Of course it is! Brian - 09/11/2009 04:06:22 AM 577 Views
For girls too? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:22:09 PM 541 Views
Yeah Brian - 09/11/2009 04:30:27 PM 605 Views
If all you want is some place to have a good beer, then don't go to a LGBT bar. MightyYT - 09/11/2009 05:11:08 AM 550 Views
I think I can overcome the urge to dance, as long as it won't make me a pariah. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:20:46 PM 490 Views
Dude, this has nothing to do with TV Monkey - 09/11/2009 07:43:33 AM 645 Views
I know! I'm a dork! Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:13:10 PM 692 Views
It's hard, and I admire anyone who can pull it off. AgentOrange - 09/11/2009 10:21:43 AM 570 Views
Same here ironclad - 09/11/2009 11:36:30 AM 510 Views
Hm. I'm used to feeling socially awkward already, though. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:07:45 PM 618 Views
Bring a book? *NM* Camilla - 09/11/2009 11:01:54 AM 337 Views
... but which book? Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:09:29 PM 472 Views
If you take a book.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:12:13 PM 573 Views
To a gay bar in the midwest? Hehe. cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:29:07 PM 619 Views
lol, oh dear. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:43:41 PM 614 Views
Re: Twelve at a time! *NM* Danae al'Thor - 10/11/2009 04:04:41 AM 216 Views
Of course it is. Elaine - 09/11/2009 12:40:06 PM 575 Views
Thank you, that's good advice. *NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:08:16 PM 229 Views
I've been to straight bars, and gay bars.. @my - 09/11/2009 02:11:40 PM 731 Views
Thank you, Amy, that really helps. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:16:33 PM 613 Views
You could ask 'teh gay' that you know that lives in the same city as you do. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:16:12 PM 540 Views
I was being passive. Hoping you would see this and respond. Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:18:59 PM 507 Views
No, I'll reply in full/send noteboard. We can arrange something so you don't go alone. The Shrike - 09/11/2009 02:22:44 PM 521 Views
*NM* Lupine - 09/11/2009 02:34:37 PM 274 Views
<3 @my - 10/11/2009 02:26:04 AM 628 Views
It is nice of him, isn't it? *NM* Lupine - 10/11/2009 02:57:00 AM 290 Views
Exceptionally so. @my - 10/11/2009 03:00:43 AM 555 Views
Get a buzz going before you go there? cabbage - 09/11/2009 02:25:30 PM 466 Views
Yes, it's allowed. Aeryn - 09/11/2009 02:43:18 PM 700 Views
This is why I love the USA ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:28:52 PM 534 Views
"i just turned 21, it's my first time in a bar" sounds like the wrong thing to say somehow... moondog - 09/11/2009 04:17:12 PM 627 Views
It would certainly break the ice. *NM* Aeryn - 09/11/2009 08:45:29 PM 224 Views
Don't get a buzz going before you go there! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:08:26 PM 559 Views
Dude, she's 21! Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:14:44 PM 479 Views
I know! ironclad - 09/11/2009 03:18:52 PM 570 Views
That's what I'm depending on other people doing. cabbage - 11/11/2009 12:09:42 AM 455 Views
Absolutely go to a bar by yoursefl. Tigr - 09/11/2009 03:16:38 PM 473 Views
Well I can't give any advice on gay bars random thoughts - 09/11/2009 04:12:26 PM 540 Views
go at happy hour moondog - 09/11/2009 04:16:25 PM 640 Views
Funniest title ever. nossy - 09/11/2009 04:54:46 PM 563 Views
It's perfectly fine and normal Stephen - 09/11/2009 10:12:23 PM 566 Views
Hah! Glad I could be of service Mat Maniac - 10/11/2009 05:24:34 AM 490 Views
The main thing is relax Mark - 10/11/2009 05:40:28 PM 652 Views
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