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No. I don't hold onto negative emotions. The Shrike Send a noteboard - 16/12/2009 02:05:34 PM
It's not that it is easier to let it go, it's that it is more healthy to let it go. I always feel better once I forgive someone. Negative emotions tax the body too much to keep holding onto them.

While I don't condone or endorse any religions, some reading of Buddhist philosophy can't hurt you. It is hard to forgive, but it is ultimately what one must do. And holding onto a grudge is not forgiving.
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No. I don't hold onto negative emotions. The Shrike - 16/12/2009 02:05:34 PM 588 Views
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Hardly. Helene - 20/12/2009 07:54:45 AM 549 Views
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