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Lici Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM
Not say say you shouldn't ask her to give you that time, just phrase it more elegantly.


This, obviously.

And seriously, actually celebrating anything more than years is silly. I mean, Nick and I acknowledge months because we're in a long distance relationship and it's reassuring to think about, but we don't CELEBRATE them.


I can understand this... and I'm sure I would have been the same if Andrew and I could remember which day was the "official we're together!" day... So, I just decided it was sometime in September. Who cares about the day?

Hold your ground. IMO, if she's pushing and pushing without thought for you and your feelings, then she's probably "needing to be loved" or something like that, and you're in for a ride anyways

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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 1034 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 722 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 611 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 623 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 612 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 624 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 576 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 577 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 564 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 644 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 524 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 594 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 576 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 596 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 555 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 668 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 562 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 716 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 567 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 573 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 603 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 597 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 616 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 608 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 614 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 605 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 581 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 574 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 559 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 550 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 558 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 554 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 588 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 246 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 758 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 564 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 566 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 569 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 666 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 748 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 533 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 623 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 646 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 549 Views
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