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Lici Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM
Not say say you shouldn't ask her to give you that time, just phrase it more elegantly.


This, obviously.

And seriously, actually celebrating anything more than years is silly. I mean, Nick and I acknowledge months because we're in a long distance relationship and it's reassuring to think about, but we don't CELEBRATE them.


I can understand this... and I'm sure I would have been the same if Andrew and I could remember which day was the "official we're together!" day... So, I just decided it was sometime in September. Who cares about the day?

Hold your ground. IMO, if she's pushing and pushing without thought for you and your feelings, then she's probably "needing to be loved" or something like that, and you're in for a ride anyways

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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 874 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 548 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 443 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 434 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 443 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 464 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 418 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 429 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 403 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 476 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 369 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 439 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 422 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 418 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 398 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 497 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 409 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 573 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 405 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 414 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 444 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 439 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 442 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 443 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 458 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 438 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 418 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 413 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 409 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 393 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 392 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 402 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 428 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 177 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 589 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 397 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 401 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 411 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 507 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 567 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 380 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 438 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 482 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 394 Views
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