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Lici Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM
Not say say you shouldn't ask her to give you that time, just phrase it more elegantly.


This, obviously.

And seriously, actually celebrating anything more than years is silly. I mean, Nick and I acknowledge months because we're in a long distance relationship and it's reassuring to think about, but we don't CELEBRATE them.


I can understand this... and I'm sure I would have been the same if Andrew and I could remember which day was the "official we're together!" day... So, I just decided it was sometime in September. Who cares about the day?

Hold your ground. IMO, if she's pushing and pushing without thought for you and your feelings, then she's probably "needing to be loved" or something like that, and you're in for a ride anyways

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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 892 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 562 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 452 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 449 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 456 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 473 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 431 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 441 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 415 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 490 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 384 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 450 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 433 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 432 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 413 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 510 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 421 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 584 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 419 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 423 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 458 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 449 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 459 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 453 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 472 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 453 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 427 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 429 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 418 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 406 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 407 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 411 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 442 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 181 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 606 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 411 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 417 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 424 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 522 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 580 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 391 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 451 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 491 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 409 Views
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