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Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM
And stress to her that just because you aren't ready to say something like that, that it doesn't mean that you don't care for her. Stress to her that you like her a lot, and that your guys' relationship is still very important to you, but that you just need time before you're going to feel like saying it is right.

If all else fails....just blame your ex-wife. I'm sure you can come up with a good tale that explains how she has ruined your "I love you" saying ability for a while.
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isn't pretty much what she is doing now? - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 411 Views
If I were you... - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 508 Views
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I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 421 Views
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That is why God invented dark - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 427 Views
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it was close - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 406 Views
I knew a couple that did that - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 405 Views
Wow. - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 410 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 440 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 181 Views
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This isn't somehting I can compromise on... - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 409 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 415 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 422 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 520 Views
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I have a question. - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 389 Views
She is 26. - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 449 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 490 Views
Hmmm...that may be - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 407 Views

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