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That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM
Starts off with just saying I love you to keep them happy then you get the "if you loved me you would ______" it starts to take more and more to fill that blank in.

You could always turn the tables and say that if she loved you she would give you time.


My response is always "If you loved me, you would never use that phrase." It works surprisingly often for me.
Castle: This is so weird. I dressed up as him for Halloween.

Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 890 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 560 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 452 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 447 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 456 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 473 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 428 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 439 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 415 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 489 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 382 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 448 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 433 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 430 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 410 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 508 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 419 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 581 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 417 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 421 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 456 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 449 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 457 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 450 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 470 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 451 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 426 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 427 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 416 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 406 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 405 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 410 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 440 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 180 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 604 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 408 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 414 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 422 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 519 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 578 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 389 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 449 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 490 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 407 Views
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