It pisses me off when I hear women say that to other women.

You must never think you cannot have it all. Having children is not the death of all your dreams... To me it is the opposite. You should work even harder to full fill your dreams in life so that they see it is possible.

That stupid hag can go take care of her own problem. The worst thing here is that she probably thinks she is helping you.
I would bet my hair that she would never, ever say the same thing to a man.

Don't let this give you more guilt, us mums are full of constantly anyway.

You go back to school, do what you love, enjoy life, and become a better mum because of it.