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Welcome; I often have more faith in a person than in people. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/02/2010 09:45:48 AM
Which is huge. I'm reminded yet again of my deeply insightful observation that 95% of relationships is finding someone to put up with your crap, but by the same token, when you realize just HOW MUCH insane crap is out there and you're still willing to try, that's a major accomplishment. When you try, and it works, and it lasts, well, worst case scenario it'll be a hell of a ride, and you may just end up with a miracle all your own forever that no one can take, so why not grab it with both hands? I'm the Relationship Expert now, you see. :P

The funny thing is, with Vincent it doesn't feel like nearly 5 years, and it doesn't feel like I'm done getting to know him nor that I'm done learning from him. It's been one of the easiest and smooth sailing relationships I've ever been in.

Also a good sign, especially since it seems like by now if there were any landmines concealed you'd know about them, even if you don't know his favorite Smurf yet. That you've been together so long and the two of you are still growing individually and as a couple is very encouraging (in addition to being fun, eh?) I'm very glad ya'll are doing so well, so all I can really say is, "keep up the good work!" :)
I heard a rumor the cake is a lie.</wary> ;)

LOL... brilliant!

You are took kind.
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Announcement: Vincent and I are engaged Helene - 11/02/2010 10:38:57 AM 1320 Views
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ehehehe, she is so going to kill you. *NM* Lupine - 11/02/2010 03:51:27 PM 337 Views
Her silence has me even more worried now... *NM* ironclad - 12/02/2010 08:37:23 AM 345 Views
Entirely out of the loop... *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:06:21 AM 356 Views
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Definitely true Helene - 11/02/2010 11:59:13 AM 628 Views
Congrats to both of you. Joel - 11/02/2010 11:52:53 AM 906 Views
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I'm sure you're up to it. Joel - 11/02/2010 12:10:36 PM 704 Views
Thanks for your faith in me Helene - 11/02/2010 12:38:56 PM 681 Views
Welcome; I often have more faith in a person than in people. Joel - 13/02/2010 09:45:48 AM 1176 Views
Oo! Great Lord of Chaos - 11/02/2010 12:10:06 PM 740 Views
Pictures of what? The cake? The rings? Us? Helene - 11/02/2010 12:41:12 PM 655 Views
Congratulations. Have a wonderful day. *NM* Artsapat - 11/02/2010 12:15:06 PM 419 Views
That'll be rather a while - years. *NM* Helene - 11/02/2010 12:42:00 PM 337 Views
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The planning's the fun bit. Rebekah - 11/02/2010 01:04:54 PM 680 Views
I suppose it's fun when we've saved up to actually plan something fun! Helene - 11/02/2010 01:08:05 PM 609 Views
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Not yet Helene - 11/02/2010 01:15:23 PM 697 Views
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Figures... it's not normal in the Netherlands, though Helene - 11/02/2010 03:37:17 PM 647 Views
Diamonds are gross. globug0822 - 12/02/2010 03:59:10 PM 634 Views
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*gasp* Chick ain't supposed to ask the dude! LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 06:39:16 PM 707 Views
In gay marriages, does the top always ask the bottom? *NM* TaskmasterJack - 11/02/2010 07:27:11 PM 381 Views
I'm not sure, actually. More often than not, probably. LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 07:28:58 PM 641 Views
He better ask for my blessing first!!! *NM* The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:06:05 PM 362 Views
We'll see. *NM* LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:09:07 PM 331 Views
Im definitely more top in my relationship and I mention all the important stuff first The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:05:15 PM 617 Views
Top? Pfffft. Y'all are total lesbians. *NM* LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:10:01 PM 342 Views
Who would have thought conventional roles was you thing. Mats Gambling Buddy - 11/02/2010 08:03:57 PM 542 Views
I'm totally on board with role....playing. LiterateDog - 11/02/2010 08:07:54 PM 632 Views
Why not? Helene - 12/02/2010 07:08:03 AM 634 Views
It's....it's....it's just not done! *scandalized horror-stricken look* LiterateDog - 12/02/2010 09:48:17 PM 651 Views
I did it anyway! Muahahahaha. Also, I picked him up. Helene - 13/02/2010 07:02:42 AM 602 Views
Good work! *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 11/02/2010 08:02:57 PM 271 Views
Congratulations!! *NM* The Shrike - 11/02/2010 08:06:39 PM 325 Views
Awesome. Aeryn - 11/02/2010 08:33:59 PM 757 Views
Owwww.. no it's not. SF all the way baby! Helene - 12/02/2010 07:11:19 AM 625 Views
Congratulations, Helene ! melambra - 12/02/2010 01:03:48 AM 818 Views
We're at least already well on our way, so far *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:13:05 AM 343 Views
Did you say,"... doesn't have the huge diamond tradition"? Sounds like I need a Dutch girl! everynametaken - 12/02/2010 02:49:49 AM 654 Views
Dutch girls are a lot of fun, too *NM* Helene - 12/02/2010 07:12:27 AM 342 Views
And they'll pay for their own dinner when you take them out, too! Legolas - 12/02/2010 12:06:15 PM 653 Views
Not all of us are that tall Helene - 12/02/2010 12:28:51 PM 616 Views
How wonderful! Congratulations! Tim - 12/02/2010 03:11:02 PM 637 Views
Thank you so much and of course Helene - 12/02/2010 06:31:42 PM 720 Views
Are you both in Amsterdam now, or will we have to add Leiden to our itinerary? *NM* Tim - 12/02/2010 08:44:01 PM 330 Views
Why isn't Leiden on your itinerary already? Legolas - 12/02/2010 09:39:02 PM 608 Views
Where do you live? Tim - 12/02/2010 09:59:45 PM 651 Views
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Well, ain't that handy. Tim - 12/02/2010 11:41:32 PM 587 Views
Even better. Cheaper beers than in Brussels, that's for sure. *NM* Legolas - 13/02/2010 02:39:03 PM 341 Views
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