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I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT Send a noteboard - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM
My ex left me after 5 years ago in the same manner. I came home from work (3 days before Christmas mind you) and she was gone and a Dear John on the door. There was no fighting beforehand and no sign that anything was wrong. She pretty much told me that same thing. The next step is difficult to decide and everyone has to choose their own way. It was different for me in that there was not a kid involved. I kept the divorce amicable and split our stuff 50/50, but I made her do all the leg work and pay the legal fees out of her own pocket because I didn't want the divorce.

Hang in there. A path will open up. Just keep your eyes out for it.
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Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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And then, yesterday - the world came apart SilverWarder - 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM 1195 Views
*hugs* Morgawse - 13/03/2010 02:21:49 PM 571 Views
*Hug* SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:53:34 PM 535 Views
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sareitha Sedai - 13/03/2010 04:06:26 PM 654 Views
Thank you Sareitha SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:56:30 AM 533 Views
Oh my goodness. nossy - 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM 545 Views
Thanks Jen SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM 484 Views
It may not do much good to say this, but nossy - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM 534 Views
Perhaps I should have said SilverWarder - 18/03/2010 01:49:43 PM 570 Views
how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 659 Views
It is, thank you. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:00:35 AM 552 Views
Wow...I'm sorry man Brian - 13/03/2010 06:09:01 PM 537 Views
wow.. Kel - 13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM 553 Views
I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 561 Views
oh, my Camilla - 13/03/2010 06:47:00 PM 587 Views
How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 650 Views
Re: And then, yesterday - the world came apart Egwene Dreamwalker - 13/03/2010 07:11:59 PM 657 Views
Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 596 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 549 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 540 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 563 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 234 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 573 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 547 Views
Yeah - she LOVES the new Horton hears a Who film. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:06:53 AM 510 Views
That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 666 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 578 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 526 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 229 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 571 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 628 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 598 Views
Ouch Floffe - 14/03/2010 11:21:16 AM 527 Views
Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 583 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 514 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 570 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 637 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 564 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 545 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 249 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 522 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 516 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 226 Views
Jesus. Elaine - 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM 568 Views
It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM 568 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM 618 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 501 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM 534 Views
Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 587 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 230 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 558 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 511 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 498 Views
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