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I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT Send a noteboard - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM
My ex left me after 5 years ago in the same manner. I came home from work (3 days before Christmas mind you) and she was gone and a Dear John on the door. There was no fighting beforehand and no sign that anything was wrong. She pretty much told me that same thing. The next step is difficult to decide and everyone has to choose their own way. It was different for me in that there was not a kid involved. I kept the divorce amicable and split our stuff 50/50, but I made her do all the leg work and pay the legal fees out of her own pocket because I didn't want the divorce.

Hang in there. A path will open up. Just keep your eyes out for it.
Castle: This is so weird. I dressed up as him for Halloween.

Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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And then, yesterday - the world came apart SilverWarder - 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM 1323 Views
*hugs* Morgawse - 13/03/2010 02:21:49 PM 695 Views
*Hug* SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:53:34 PM 639 Views
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sareitha Sedai - 13/03/2010 04:06:26 PM 797 Views
Thank you Sareitha SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:56:30 AM 642 Views
Oh my goodness. nossy - 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM 654 Views
Thanks Jen SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM 599 Views
It may not do much good to say this, but nossy - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM 638 Views
Perhaps I should have said SilverWarder - 18/03/2010 01:49:43 PM 712 Views
how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 781 Views
It is, thank you. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:00:35 AM 661 Views
Wow...I'm sorry man Brian - 13/03/2010 06:09:01 PM 655 Views
wow.. Kel - 13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM 673 Views
I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 687 Views
oh, my Camilla - 13/03/2010 06:47:00 PM 693 Views
How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 753 Views
Re: And then, yesterday - the world came apart Egwene Dreamwalker - 13/03/2010 07:11:59 PM 757 Views
Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 713 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 650 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 639 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 670 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 273 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 705 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 639 Views
Yeah - she LOVES the new Horton hears a Who film. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:06:53 AM 619 Views
That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 772 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 695 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 635 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 276 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 677 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 737 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 697 Views
Ouch Floffe - 14/03/2010 11:21:16 AM 645 Views
Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 694 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 623 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 675 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 762 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 687 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 652 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 289 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 630 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 631 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 279 Views
Jesus. Elaine - 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM 679 Views
It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM 681 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM 739 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 618 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM 632 Views
Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 691 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 295 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 672 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 617 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 598 Views
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