people simply do not walk away from a relationship, especially one involving a child, without some sort of motivating agenda. Basically, the "I feel trapped, I need space, we aren't getting along, I'm not happy" blah, blah, blah, are surface-level excuses. What is the real reason? Tash suggested depression. Your implication that the house was already a wreck tends to lend credence to that. People going through a major depressive episode tend to have difficulty motivating themselves to do anything. If that's it, it is treatable but it will require a lot of patience and understanding on your part. Of course, there could be many other agendas that would not necessarily portend a favorable outcome, but hopefully that's not it.
My thoughts are with all three of you.
My thoughts are with all three of you.
I'm pretty sure it's depression too. Lots and lots of signs point that way.
May God stand between you and harm in all the empty places you must walk.
Old Egyptian Blessing
Old Egyptian Blessing
And then, yesterday - the world came apart
- 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM
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Oh my goodness.
- 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM
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Thanks Jen
- 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM
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There is a little hope here...
- 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM
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Some, yes.
- 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM
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That is a tough little girl there.
- 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM
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How in touch were you?
- 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM
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from what I have seen in 57 years of life....
- 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM
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I pretty much agree
- 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM
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I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies.
- 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM
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It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so.
- 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM
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Jesus.
- 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM
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It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW!
- 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM
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Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM*
- 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM
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Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure.
- 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM
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