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I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT Send a noteboard - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM
My ex left me after 5 years ago in the same manner. I came home from work (3 days before Christmas mind you) and she was gone and a Dear John on the door. There was no fighting beforehand and no sign that anything was wrong. She pretty much told me that same thing. The next step is difficult to decide and everyone has to choose their own way. It was different for me in that there was not a kid involved. I kept the divorce amicable and split our stuff 50/50, but I made her do all the leg work and pay the legal fees out of her own pocket because I didn't want the divorce.

Hang in there. A path will open up. Just keep your eyes out for it.
Castle: This is so weird. I dressed up as him for Halloween.

Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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And then, yesterday - the world came apart SilverWarder - 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM 1469 Views
*hugs* Morgawse - 13/03/2010 02:21:49 PM 836 Views
*Hug* SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:53:34 PM 784 Views
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sareitha Sedai - 13/03/2010 04:06:26 PM 944 Views
Thank you Sareitha SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:56:30 AM 771 Views
Oh my goodness. nossy - 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM 793 Views
Thanks Jen SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM 738 Views
It may not do much good to say this, but nossy - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM 778 Views
Perhaps I should have said SilverWarder - 18/03/2010 01:49:43 PM 856 Views
how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 908 Views
It is, thank you. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:00:35 AM 789 Views
Wow...I'm sorry man Brian - 13/03/2010 06:09:01 PM 795 Views
wow.. Kel - 13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM 807 Views
I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 823 Views
oh, my Camilla - 13/03/2010 06:47:00 PM 826 Views
How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 888 Views
Re: And then, yesterday - the world came apart Egwene Dreamwalker - 13/03/2010 07:11:59 PM 906 Views
Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 845 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 781 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 779 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 801 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 342 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 855 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 773 Views
Yeah - she LOVES the new Horton hears a Who film. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:06:53 AM 746 Views
That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 924 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 825 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 772 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 344 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 810 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 885 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 836 Views
Ouch Floffe - 14/03/2010 11:21:16 AM 774 Views
Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 844 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 759 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 809 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 909 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 825 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 796 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 363 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 775 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 762 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 347 Views
Jesus. Elaine - 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM 820 Views
It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM 823 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM 881 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 754 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM 774 Views
Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 834 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 364 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 795 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 758 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 743 Views
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