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Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Milla Send a noteboard - 04/09/2009 03:41:15 PM
A smack should never leave a mark (apart from maybe a bit of redness for an hour or so). If there are bruises it's not a spanking.


But how can your properly hit a child? And can you hit it harder when it gets older since it might take more before it shows?

A spanking should not be done in anger because it's harder to control yourself.


So you plan to hit it? I find that very bad.

But a smack is sometimes the only option you have to teach your child not to throw things at the cat, or stomp on the dog's paw, or put his hand on the fire/heater etc. Children cannot always be reasoned with - very young children cannot be reasoned with at all. How else are you to teach them not to do the bad things children always do as they discover their world?


My son throws things at the dog, I have never hit him. I tell him no, he respects me enough to stop when I talk to him.

And how young is a very young child? When is the proper age to use violence? I can not understand this...
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Stranger Slaps Screaming Toddler Great Lord of Chaos - 04/09/2009 03:31:55 AM 1234 Views
Hey..I'm not saying the guy did the right thing.....but I understand why he slapped that kid. *NM* Animosity - 04/09/2009 04:02:40 AM 419 Views
Me too, but I think slapping the kid on the face is going way too far *NM* Colonel Logain - 04/09/2009 04:10:55 AM 437 Views
That is bad. nossy - 04/09/2009 04:15:57 AM 630 Views
Agreed. Joel - 04/09/2009 05:09:32 AM 672 Views
Well first of all he was from Georgia..... StarEnight - 04/09/2009 06:03:08 AM 747 Views
The same could be said for the toddler too though... Milla - 04/09/2009 09:16:06 AM 766 Views
I totally agree. StarEnight - 04/09/2009 03:22:17 PM 748 Views
I don't disagree with either of you nossy - 04/09/2009 04:26:10 PM 612 Views
and odds are it is just a sick or tired kid random thoughts - 04/09/2009 02:40:10 PM 702 Views
I think the imporant question is....did the slap shut the damned thing up? *NM* LiterateDog - 04/09/2009 04:18:55 AM 374 Views
grr...the stupid video won't play for me! *NM* Kylia Skydancer - 04/09/2009 04:35:51 AM 389 Views
God help the man who slaps my daughter. Believe that. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:42:39 AM 667 Views
My friend always says.... Brian - 04/09/2009 04:55:36 AM 754 Views
*approves* *NM* Kylia Skydancer - 04/09/2009 05:00:42 AM 489 Views
My joking aside, I agree completely with you. LiterateDog - 04/09/2009 05:10:22 AM 762 Views
Re: My joking aside, I agree completely with you. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 01:56:20 PM 782 Views
Amen. @my - 04/09/2009 06:47:14 AM 761 Views
Yep. If he had slapped my kid jail might be the only safe place for him random thoughts - 04/09/2009 02:35:36 PM 627 Views
Hell. Craig - 05/09/2009 02:46:31 AM 668 Views
Amen to that! Seriana Sedai - 06/09/2009 10:07:03 PM 779 Views
I thought hitting children was legal in the US. *NM* Jonielle - 04/09/2009 06:11:37 AM 373 Views
Spanking your child is legal...there's a big difference between spanking your own kid and this. *NM* Brian - 04/09/2009 06:17:25 AM 494 Views
I find spanking just as big a abuse as this... The idea of raising a child with violence... *NM* Milla - 04/09/2009 08:32:08 AM 419 Views
Then you would have hated my home, cause I got spanked a lot growing up Brian - 04/09/2009 08:45:44 AM 601 Views
I've never been spanked... I will never spank my child. Milla - 04/09/2009 08:53:03 AM 624 Views
I would hope not, since it's illegal there Brian - 04/09/2009 08:56:28 AM 714 Views
Agreed. Jonielle - 04/09/2009 11:17:19 AM 621 Views
Is this a joke? *NM* Chas - 04/09/2009 02:44:50 PM 411 Views
No. Jonielle - 04/09/2009 02:48:17 PM 675 Views
Well, unless I'm way off base... Chas - 04/09/2009 04:18:01 PM 722 Views
Re: Well, unless I'm way off base... Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:23:20 PM 722 Views
I assume whatever they based their results on Chas - 04/09/2009 04:32:20 PM 595 Views
I could be wrong... Legolas - 04/09/2009 09:11:23 PM 563 Views
No, it's Jojjo being her usual anti-American self *NM* ßelals Girl - 04/09/2009 05:10:32 PM 377 Views
Oh. Chas - 04/09/2009 05:33:25 PM 659 Views
Of course we do ßelals Girl - 04/09/2009 05:50:10 PM 470 Views
So you can fit more (dead)bodies? *NM* Chas - 04/09/2009 05:57:35 PM 400 Views
They do take up a lot of space when grocery shopping. *NM* Brian - 04/09/2009 07:04:42 PM 445 Views
O.o You're... kind of off. Deadsy - 04/09/2009 02:48:42 PM 767 Views
Well... Jonielle - 04/09/2009 02:55:17 PM 714 Views
I find that ridiculous, but maybe we're backwards and don't know it? Deadsy - 04/09/2009 03:01:08 PM 710 Views
... Jonielle - 04/09/2009 03:21:44 PM 695 Views
Quit backpedaling ßelals Girl - 04/09/2009 05:08:30 PM 598 Views
What?! The UN said it so it's obviously true!!!! Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 03:30:40 PM 631 Views
... Jonielle - 04/09/2009 03:52:05 PM 667 Views
Well, we had to declare our "War on Children", of course. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:09:29 PM 651 Views
Oh man, yes. The domestic children are the worst, you never know when they'll strike. *NM* Craig - 05/09/2009 02:49:52 AM 413 Views
If the the US would simply stop funding the UN it would go way a stop making stupid statements random thoughts - 04/09/2009 04:18:03 PM 745 Views
Spanking does not eaqual face slapping @my - 04/09/2009 07:15:37 AM 741 Views
But who would spank their own child? It is abuseive and horrible!! *NM* Milla - 04/09/2009 08:44:56 AM 413 Views
I got spanked a handful of times over the years... Zeeb - 04/09/2009 09:52:55 AM 635 Views
A simple spanking is not abusive or horrible LadyLorraine - 04/09/2009 01:38:26 PM 672 Views
Points for the use of "gorram." *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 03:28:00 PM 441 Views
Re: A simple spanking is not abusive or horrible Milla - 04/09/2009 03:38:02 PM 685 Views
Spanking doesn't lead to fear of parents. Rebekah - 04/09/2009 03:54:45 PM 586 Views
No, it's not. Properly done. Rebekah - 04/09/2009 01:44:30 PM 571 Views
Agree completely nossy - 04/09/2009 02:05:01 PM 689 Views
<3 the pacman smiley *NM* LaSombra - 04/09/2009 03:22:35 PM 376 Views
I know, me too *NM* nossy - 04/09/2009 05:48:29 PM 351 Views
Yeah, but I'm sure you deserved what you got. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 03:42:06 PM 666 Views
nossy - 04/09/2009 04:20:38 PM 609 Views
I've been threatened. Threatened, I say! With bodily harm. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:25:36 PM 567 Views
Well, yeah. nossy - 04/09/2009 04:43:45 PM 675 Views
But it won't take them long to realize that... Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:52:59 PM 644 Views
hehe, ok. good point. *NM* nossy - 04/09/2009 05:48:12 PM 362 Views
Are you saying yes or no to spanking? snoopcester - 04/09/2009 03:55:27 PM 673 Views
o.o nossy - 04/09/2009 04:24:20 PM 549 Views
snoopcester - 04/09/2009 04:33:41 PM 683 Views
Did you mean , by any chance? nossy - 04/09/2009 04:41:10 PM 534 Views
I mean the smiley I used snoopcester - 04/09/2009 04:50:58 PM 517 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Milla - 04/09/2009 03:41:15 PM 712 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Rebekah - 04/09/2009 03:52:48 PM 642 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Milla - 04/09/2009 04:05:18 PM 692 Views
Re: daycare Rebekah - 04/09/2009 05:18:39 PM 678 Views
Re: daycare Milla - 04/09/2009 06:21:19 PM 649 Views
Re: daycare Rebekah - 04/09/2009 06:26:10 PM 674 Views
Re: daycare Milla - 04/09/2009 06:38:57 PM 681 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Brian - 04/09/2009 06:29:32 PM 634 Views
This isn't black and white. I was spanked as a child (with a hand) and I don't consider it abusive. *NM* Deadsy - 04/09/2009 02:51:26 PM 413 Views
I agree with you you. That's why I set up a punishment schedule that doesn't include spanking. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:04:52 PM 584 Views
Re: Huh. TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 04:07:11 PM 571 Views
Re: Huh. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:12:58 PM 689 Views
Re: Huh. TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 04:15:23 PM 707 Views
Ah.... Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:17:13 PM 659 Views
Re: Ah.... TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 04:43:33 PM 538 Views
If you ever make them read Goodkind, I'll report you to the authorities! *NM* Mossman - 05/09/2009 10:14:41 PM 493 Views
sometimes i'd like to.. Master Qui_John - 04/09/2009 06:39:58 AM 588 Views
That man would absolutely get my fist in his adam's apple if he touched my child. To start. Catriona - 04/09/2009 09:24:58 AM 583 Views
I'd have slapped the parent instead snoopcester - 04/09/2009 11:56:31 AM 711 Views
Better to let the child scream... Zeeb - 04/09/2009 12:00:12 PM 577 Views
The kid can scream all it wants, the parents are still getting slapped though snoopcester - 04/09/2009 12:05:36 PM 590 Views
Zeeb - 04/09/2009 12:13:27 PM 606 Views
As bad as that all is... LadyLorraine - 04/09/2009 01:44:11 PM 702 Views
*giggles* LaSombra - 04/09/2009 03:23:43 PM 635 Views
Oh hell no. Tigr - 04/09/2009 02:13:16 PM 705 Views
I'd almost be more sympathetic of one slap... but four or five? TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 03:15:33 PM 596 Views
Re: This is why it is better to RUN AWAY! Danae al'Thor - 04/09/2009 03:23:57 PM 675 Views
buh... I'm speechless. That guy would be one dead mother fucker if he hit my kid LaSombra - 04/09/2009 03:28:49 PM 599 Views
Small Testicle Syndrome. *NM* TheCrownless - 04/09/2009 03:52:42 PM 352 Views
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