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Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Milla Send a noteboard - 04/09/2009 03:41:15 PM
A smack should never leave a mark (apart from maybe a bit of redness for an hour or so). If there are bruises it's not a spanking.


But how can your properly hit a child? And can you hit it harder when it gets older since it might take more before it shows?

A spanking should not be done in anger because it's harder to control yourself.


So you plan to hit it? I find that very bad.

But a smack is sometimes the only option you have to teach your child not to throw things at the cat, or stomp on the dog's paw, or put his hand on the fire/heater etc. Children cannot always be reasoned with - very young children cannot be reasoned with at all. How else are you to teach them not to do the bad things children always do as they discover their world?


My son throws things at the dog, I have never hit him. I tell him no, he respects me enough to stop when I talk to him.

And how young is a very young child? When is the proper age to use violence? I can not understand this...
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Stranger Slaps Screaming Toddler Great Lord of Chaos - 04/09/2009 03:31:55 AM 1321 Views
Hey..I'm not saying the guy did the right thing.....but I understand why he slapped that kid. *NM* Animosity - 04/09/2009 04:02:40 AM 467 Views
Me too, but I think slapping the kid on the face is going way too far *NM* Colonel Logain - 04/09/2009 04:10:55 AM 476 Views
That is bad. nossy - 04/09/2009 04:15:57 AM 714 Views
Agreed. Joel - 04/09/2009 05:09:32 AM 762 Views
Well first of all he was from Georgia..... StarEnight - 04/09/2009 06:03:08 AM 836 Views
The same could be said for the toddler too though... Milla - 04/09/2009 09:16:06 AM 839 Views
I totally agree. StarEnight - 04/09/2009 03:22:17 PM 827 Views
I don't disagree with either of you nossy - 04/09/2009 04:26:10 PM 695 Views
and odds are it is just a sick or tired kid random thoughts - 04/09/2009 02:40:10 PM 780 Views
I think the imporant question is....did the slap shut the damned thing up? *NM* LiterateDog - 04/09/2009 04:18:55 AM 415 Views
grr...the stupid video won't play for me! *NM* Kylia Skydancer - 04/09/2009 04:35:51 AM 432 Views
God help the man who slaps my daughter. Believe that. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:42:39 AM 747 Views
My friend always says.... Brian - 04/09/2009 04:55:36 AM 837 Views
*approves* *NM* Kylia Skydancer - 04/09/2009 05:00:42 AM 530 Views
My joking aside, I agree completely with you. LiterateDog - 04/09/2009 05:10:22 AM 847 Views
Re: My joking aside, I agree completely with you. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 01:56:20 PM 871 Views
Amen. @my - 04/09/2009 06:47:14 AM 844 Views
Yep. If he had slapped my kid jail might be the only safe place for him random thoughts - 04/09/2009 02:35:36 PM 717 Views
Hell. Craig - 05/09/2009 02:46:31 AM 754 Views
Amen to that! Seriana Sedai - 06/09/2009 10:07:03 PM 859 Views
I thought hitting children was legal in the US. *NM* Jonielle - 04/09/2009 06:11:37 AM 414 Views
Spanking your child is legal...there's a big difference between spanking your own kid and this. *NM* Brian - 04/09/2009 06:17:25 AM 565 Views
I find spanking just as big a abuse as this... The idea of raising a child with violence... *NM* Milla - 04/09/2009 08:32:08 AM 476 Views
Then you would have hated my home, cause I got spanked a lot growing up Brian - 04/09/2009 08:45:44 AM 681 Views
I've never been spanked... I will never spank my child. Milla - 04/09/2009 08:53:03 AM 706 Views
I would hope not, since it's illegal there Brian - 04/09/2009 08:56:28 AM 790 Views
Agreed. Jonielle - 04/09/2009 11:17:19 AM 716 Views
Is this a joke? *NM* Chas - 04/09/2009 02:44:50 PM 454 Views
No. Jonielle - 04/09/2009 02:48:17 PM 788 Views
Well, unless I'm way off base... Chas - 04/09/2009 04:18:01 PM 811 Views
Re: Well, unless I'm way off base... Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:23:20 PM 808 Views
I assume whatever they based their results on Chas - 04/09/2009 04:32:20 PM 678 Views
I could be wrong... Legolas - 04/09/2009 09:11:23 PM 656 Views
No, it's Jojjo being her usual anti-American self *NM* ßelals Girl - 04/09/2009 05:10:32 PM 418 Views
Oh. Chas - 04/09/2009 05:33:25 PM 745 Views
Of course we do ßelals Girl - 04/09/2009 05:50:10 PM 549 Views
So you can fit more (dead)bodies? *NM* Chas - 04/09/2009 05:57:35 PM 442 Views
They do take up a lot of space when grocery shopping. *NM* Brian - 04/09/2009 07:04:42 PM 486 Views
O.o You're... kind of off. Deadsy - 04/09/2009 02:48:42 PM 856 Views
Well... Jonielle - 04/09/2009 02:55:17 PM 809 Views
I find that ridiculous, but maybe we're backwards and don't know it? Deadsy - 04/09/2009 03:01:08 PM 790 Views
... Jonielle - 04/09/2009 03:21:44 PM 779 Views
Quit backpedaling ßelals Girl - 04/09/2009 05:08:30 PM 682 Views
What?! The UN said it so it's obviously true!!!! Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 03:30:40 PM 716 Views
... Jonielle - 04/09/2009 03:52:05 PM 754 Views
Well, we had to declare our "War on Children", of course. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:09:29 PM 733 Views
Oh man, yes. The domestic children are the worst, you never know when they'll strike. *NM* Craig - 05/09/2009 02:49:52 AM 454 Views
If the the US would simply stop funding the UN it would go way a stop making stupid statements random thoughts - 04/09/2009 04:18:03 PM 833 Views
Spanking does not eaqual face slapping @my - 04/09/2009 07:15:37 AM 820 Views
But who would spank their own child? It is abuseive and horrible!! *NM* Milla - 04/09/2009 08:44:56 AM 451 Views
I got spanked a handful of times over the years... Zeeb - 04/09/2009 09:52:55 AM 718 Views
A simple spanking is not abusive or horrible LadyLorraine - 04/09/2009 01:38:26 PM 767 Views
Points for the use of "gorram." *NM* Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 03:28:00 PM 478 Views
Re: A simple spanking is not abusive or horrible Milla - 04/09/2009 03:38:02 PM 776 Views
Spanking doesn't lead to fear of parents. Rebekah - 04/09/2009 03:54:45 PM 663 Views
No, it's not. Properly done. Rebekah - 04/09/2009 01:44:30 PM 657 Views
Agree completely nossy - 04/09/2009 02:05:01 PM 773 Views
<3 the pacman smiley *NM* LaSombra - 04/09/2009 03:22:35 PM 415 Views
I know, me too *NM* nossy - 04/09/2009 05:48:29 PM 400 Views
Yeah, but I'm sure you deserved what you got. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 03:42:06 PM 746 Views
nossy - 04/09/2009 04:20:38 PM 690 Views
I've been threatened. Threatened, I say! With bodily harm. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:25:36 PM 655 Views
Well, yeah. nossy - 04/09/2009 04:43:45 PM 757 Views
But it won't take them long to realize that... Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:52:59 PM 733 Views
hehe, ok. good point. *NM* nossy - 04/09/2009 05:48:12 PM 402 Views
Are you saying yes or no to spanking? snoopcester - 04/09/2009 03:55:27 PM 750 Views
o.o nossy - 04/09/2009 04:24:20 PM 633 Views
snoopcester - 04/09/2009 04:33:41 PM 759 Views
Did you mean , by any chance? nossy - 04/09/2009 04:41:10 PM 614 Views
I mean the smiley I used snoopcester - 04/09/2009 04:50:58 PM 625 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Milla - 04/09/2009 03:41:15 PM 796 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Rebekah - 04/09/2009 03:52:48 PM 731 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Milla - 04/09/2009 04:05:18 PM 780 Views
Re: daycare Rebekah - 04/09/2009 05:18:39 PM 757 Views
Re: daycare Milla - 04/09/2009 06:21:19 PM 732 Views
Re: daycare Rebekah - 04/09/2009 06:26:10 PM 765 Views
Re: daycare Milla - 04/09/2009 06:38:57 PM 770 Views
Re: No, it's not. Properly done. Brian - 04/09/2009 06:29:32 PM 736 Views
This isn't black and white. I was spanked as a child (with a hand) and I don't consider it abusive. *NM* Deadsy - 04/09/2009 02:51:26 PM 463 Views
I agree with you you. That's why I set up a punishment schedule that doesn't include spanking. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:04:52 PM 682 Views
Re: Huh. TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 04:07:11 PM 653 Views
Re: Huh. Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:12:58 PM 778 Views
Re: Huh. TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 04:15:23 PM 789 Views
Ah.... Mats Gambling Buddy - 04/09/2009 04:17:13 PM 761 Views
Re: Ah.... TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 04:43:33 PM 621 Views
If you ever make them read Goodkind, I'll report you to the authorities! *NM* Mossman - 05/09/2009 10:14:41 PM 558 Views
sometimes i'd like to.. Master Qui_John - 04/09/2009 06:39:58 AM 677 Views
That man would absolutely get my fist in his adam's apple if he touched my child. To start. Catriona - 04/09/2009 09:24:58 AM 667 Views
I'd have slapped the parent instead snoopcester - 04/09/2009 11:56:31 AM 799 Views
Better to let the child scream... Zeeb - 04/09/2009 12:00:12 PM 658 Views
The kid can scream all it wants, the parents are still getting slapped though snoopcester - 04/09/2009 12:05:36 PM 679 Views
Zeeb - 04/09/2009 12:13:27 PM 681 Views
As bad as that all is... LadyLorraine - 04/09/2009 01:44:11 PM 791 Views
*giggles* LaSombra - 04/09/2009 03:23:43 PM 718 Views
Oh hell no. Tigr - 04/09/2009 02:13:16 PM 783 Views
I'd almost be more sympathetic of one slap... but four or five? TaskmasterJack - 04/09/2009 03:15:33 PM 694 Views
Re: This is why it is better to RUN AWAY! Danae al'Thor - 04/09/2009 03:23:57 PM 764 Views
buh... I'm speechless. That guy would be one dead mother fucker if he hit my kid LaSombra - 04/09/2009 03:28:49 PM 689 Views
Small Testicle Syndrome. *NM* TheCrownless - 04/09/2009 03:52:42 PM 394 Views
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