However, this is the problem in the communication going on here. YOU'RE the one with questions and issues. For Mook and other people with a modicum of sense on the issue, it's really simple.

If the person is pregnant, she's a woman. If that person got someone else pregnant through sexual intercourse, he's a man.

If they are expecting via adoption, IVF or their partner cheating on them under the guise of ethical non-monogamy or some other nonsense, you're disingenuously begging the question.